I met a guy on Friday on a dating app. He said he just wanted to have dinner with me, nothing more. I think he was being honest, but we had sex anyway (at my initiating.) But he seems definitely quite unwilling to have a serious relationship. He says he finds it very hard to move on from his e x.
Here’s the kicker, its been 3 YEARS since he left her. I don’t even understand how thats possible.
Anyway, since then we kept in touch and yesterday he came over and we celebrated his birthday and we slept together again.
Now I feel like i made a mistake there. I feel like I should see if hes acctually interested in a relationship, since thats what I want with him. And putting out isnt necessarily the best way to do that. BUT, I’m also worried that hes still so caught up on his ex that if things just fizzle away he’ll completely forget about me.
I’ve always thought the best way to get over someone is under someone else. But I also dont want this to be a casual thing. What should I do?
TLDR: Whats the best way to deal with someone obsessed with their ex?