What’s become of that flirty, womanizing buddy of yours from high school?

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What’s become of that flirty, womanizing buddy of yours from high school?

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  1. Imverystupidgenx Avatar

    He’s a serial dater at 49

  2. arkofjoy Avatar

    One died from a stroke, possibly due to cocaine usage.

    The other disappeared after cheating on his wife.

  3. Extension-Media7933 Avatar

    Is this…”I hope they failed” kind of post? That’s a loser mindset.

  4. byor-wild Avatar

    Living his best life in Thailand

  5. Kinrest Avatar

    Last I checked: Unemployed, 4 kids, 3 baby-mommas, trailer park, and still bragging about highschool “achievements” because that was the last time he did anything.

  6. TheNobleMushroom Avatar

    Wouldn’t call them a buddy but all of them seem to be in great places regardless of what social media criticism may exist.

  7. Hrekires Avatar

    He started seriously dating a friend of a friend after college and they got married a few years later.

    He cheats on her, she cheats on him, but they’ve been married for almost 20 years and have 2 kids together so wtf do I know?

  8. SweetValentine3 Avatar

    Lawyer at 40, first baby girl at 41, married to the town “fun girl”, with step kids he loves unconditionally. Not what I would have expected for him, but he’s happy, like beyond happy. Very unconventional but, it worked for them. So, don’t judge and allow them to find their peace place. We’re all different 🫶

  9. Icy-Divide8385 Avatar

    It was me. He’s settled down.

  10. Morpheushasrisen404 Avatar

    I’m hoping to become that guy as an adult.

  11. brakenbonez Avatar

    Ironically married to the shy religious (most assumed was Amish in HS) girl and has a few kids….did not see that one coming.

  12. RomAndNoodles Avatar

    I was that. Got in a long term relationship the minute I went to college. Got in another one after that. 4 years

    Got a job out of school making way more than a new grad should (~150k but a little variable) and it’s been quite pleasant

  13. Lower_Kitchen822 Avatar

    I just trained him to be a bartender didn’t recognize him, but not for bad reasons he hooked up with one of the waitresses within a week and then with an old flame of his that frequents the bar the next. And the customers love him… summary nothing has changed

  14. is_that_on_fire Avatar

    Still my best mate, settled down with a lovely girl, married her and is about to welcome a little baby who can be lil besties with mine

  15. The_Spyre Avatar

    He went to prison for murdering a woman in San Bernardino.

  16. OwwMyBallls Avatar

    He’s happily engaged to a wonderful sweet girl and I’m super happy for them and also kinda jealous lol

  17. LSTNYER Avatar

    Last I checked he’s single, going to the same bar he’s been going to for the last 20 years. We crossed paths once about a year ago. I was at that bar with friends after a comedy show and we were talking about how we’re the old people in this place now. Then in the walked like he owned the joint. I think he was still wearing Ed Hardy clothes too.

  18. MetalHeadJakee Avatar

    No idea. Never was his friend nor saw him after school.

  19. PensDownNostalgia Avatar

    Still my best friend. Had two kids born two weeks apart. Still my best friend

  20. Indotex Avatar

    Makes a REALLY good living working in IT, met someone from another country through work just about ten years ago, got married & they have at least one kid.

  21. BrilliantNothing2151 Avatar

    He banged everything that moved till he was 30 then found a wonderful wife, (it’s me)

  22. el_cid_viscoso Avatar

    Lives on an 80-acre farm in Michigan where he grows cannabis and chops wood all day. He has a wife and son now, and as far as I know, they’re still solidly together (I lost touch with them a few years ago).

  23. king_rootin_tootin Avatar

    I knew a guy who wasn’t “womanizing”, but he was a Chad and the girls dug him. He got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 22 and they ended up getting married. Last I checked they were still together and he works in HVAC.

  24. MtnHotspring Avatar

    United States Senator currently betaying Ukraine and supporting Putin.

  25. Rajion Avatar

    She’s doing good

  26. Jane_Marie_CA Avatar

    They are either peter pan (never grow up) or become traditional one wife for life family men.

    There is no inbetween. Lol

  27. AleksandrNevsky Avatar

    Found his dream girl and they have 4 kids. Seemed happy last time I talked to the two of them. Wonder if she broke the habit somehow or if he just needed to find the right one to cool his jets with.

  28. SadSickSoul Avatar

    Didn’t know any of them, which I’m extremely thankful for. Not a type of person I usually enjoy knowing.

  29. VinceMidLifeCrisis Avatar

    He’s the major of a 150.000 people town, guy is a genuine legend. Does a good job at it too.

  30. seaburno Avatar

    Dead of cancer.

    Before that, married the woman he knocked up in his senior year of college. They had twin girls, followed by 2 more girls over the next 5 years. By our 10 year reunion, he had 4 girls who had him wrapped around his finger. They were married 20ish years, and he loved being a girl dad.

  31. Alone_Psychology_464 Avatar

    I never had a buddy like that.

  32. MenudoMenudo Avatar

    Lost his hair, settled down, and after treating girls like trash as a teenager and early 20s, had three girls who he adores. He loses his mind when they bring home guys that remind him of himself at that age, but he knows that if he goes the overprotective route he’ll just drive his daughters further into their arms.

  33. rbparsons Avatar

    He is 52, never married, and will not date a girl if she is over 40. Bald and always wears a hat but thinks he still looks 30. Still my best friend but I feel bad for him.

  34. pdonoso Avatar

    Turn in to a real sociopath, still treats woman as prey and takes fun of trying to make a woman fall in love with him and then cheating on her. He is the worst person i ever known and i’m actually worried he might en up killing one of this woman. And he is a doctor. 

  35. in-a-microbus Avatar

    I married the woman I met after college.

  36. Tempo_changes13 Avatar

    He’s doing alright for himself actually he’s matured a lot surprisingly still smokes a bunch of pot but he regrets a lot of the stupid shit he said/did back in hs which was nice to see. Also told me he had reached out to both his hs exs and apologised for the way he treated them. He’s holding a stable job to and slowly climbing up. Nothing but proud of the bloke.

  37. TwoMundane8282 Avatar

    (24M) Living his best life. He is the twin brother of one of my best friends, we like to joke around he’s slept with half of San Diego lol.

  38. little-marketer Avatar

    When I was 18 I hung out a lot with two very good pickup artists

    The first went crazy. He was an incredibly talented musician and a genius for getting into a girl’s mind with just his words.

    He abused drugs for so long he kind of went crazy. A mutual psychologist friend of ours said he’s developing schizofrenia.

    The other is doing incredibly well. He’s dating a REALLY fine Italian girl, and used his absurd social skills to build a multimillion dollar company.

    YMMV