Me 27f and bf 27f
Is my relationship crumbling?
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. Initially was into Me and confessed his love for me so we went into a relationship. But after that when i started to express the little things that bothered me some were valid some were because of my own anxieties from past experiences we argued and fought sometimes and I felt he became distant each day. Then after a disagreement he said I am suffocating him and asked for space. I happily provided that and after some time he called and asked to talk and watch a movie together. I asked him how he felt he said he wants to reconnect and give it time since he doesn’t want to give up so soon for one big fight. I said the same that I want to work things out. So we started talking normally but I realised that things were very different. We are having surface level conversations and he has stopped being affectionate towards me and stopped pursuing me completely. When asked after weeks if we are moving forward he said he doesn’t know how he is feeling he cannot give his 100% right now because he doesn’t want to force himself to do anything he doesn’t want to. I asked him to tell me if there is someone else. He denied and told me he is just trying to get back to this relationship and there is no one else. And says if we could see each other physically we could have fixed it sooner. And I am feeling uncertain everyday. It’s draining emotionally.
TL;DR; : my boyfriend is distant and unsure Is this going the right way? Should I walk away or give it more time?
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