I’m 27M and pretty selective when it comes to dating. A few months ago, a new flatmate 26F moved into my apartment, and since then, I’ve had this strong feeling that we’re incredibly compatible. We click on so many levels, and it’s hard to ignore.
The catch? She has a boyfriend. She’s respectful of that and has set boundaries but at the same time, she does things that feel…… more than just friendly. Little gestures, long conversations, the way we vibe, it all makes me feel like there’s something deeper going on.
I’m not trying to mess up her relationship or ruin our friendship, so I keep my feelings to myself. But it’s tough, because part of me wonders if she feels the same.
Reddit, have you ever been in a similar situation where the timing just wasn’t right? What did you do? How did it turn out?
TL;DR I 27M feels like I met the right person at the wrong time.
Would love to hear your stories or advice.
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In the kindest way possible, is she incredibly compatible or just being nice?
Just be her friend. Maybe her relationship will end, maybe it won’t but don’t spoil what you have with a misplaced confession.