I mean, being born female, Ive only ever experienced female orgasms (and it sadly will probably stay that way) but male orgasms sound so much better imo. what makes female orgasms “superior”? they don’t even “ejaculate” most of the time, and squirting seems so different (and so much worse) than (male) cumming, so what’s with the notion that theyre more enjoyable for women than men?
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Women can multiple orgasm
They have twice the amount of nerve endings down there. They can orgasm multiple times in a row as well.
Obviously no one will ever be able to experience both, but the general idea is while men orgasm much, much, much easier, it’s much more muted, while women might struggle to orgasm, but once it happens it’s much more intense.
Depending on the person of course.
I’m trans(mtf), and transitioning does impact orgasms, so I can speak to this. Female orgasms are much much more intense. Like the feeling in the dick is a lot sharper and more pronounced but its very localized and doesn’t last very long. The female orgasm lasts a lot longer and feels a lot less localised. Personally I think the female orgasm feels incomparably better, but I am also biassed because gender euphoria and all that.
Point is, there are many differences, most of them(I feel like) lean in women’s favor.
As someone who is mtf I can very clearly state that the way that I orgasm now is incredibly different. It used to be a primarily localized to just the penis. However after starting estrogen I started to have full body orgasms which are way more potent and frankly satisfying. Probably different than someone who is afab, but I’d assume the mechanisms are mostly the same.
It clearly is there is so much evidence
The scarcity principle
Last longer and make you more happier.
This is simple. Stick your finger in your ear and move it around for a minute, then pull it out. Which feels better? Your ear? Or your finger? That’s your answer.
I’ve never hear ANYBODY saw that lol. I would like to experience a male orgasm though. Just for shits n giggles. What I have been saying is men thinking squirting is the same as having orgasm. A lot of women have said no that’s not the same feeling. You can squirt without having no orgasm at all. It literally to me just feels like peeing and that pleasure of releasing pee. And that’s nowhere in comparison to actual orgasm. For me.
Because it can last longer? I guess 😂
I think there are two reason why. But I’ll say more intense rather than better.
The first one is the concentration of nerve endings in the clitoris. IIRC it’s about twice what’s in the entire penis, which probably mean that women can enjoy a higher range of sensation and a higher sensitivity of sensation.
The second reason why I think is a byproduct of women usually being the recipient of penetration and having a G-spot. Some women can experience G-spot only orgasm, which are supposedly very intense. But having their G-spot stimulated (i.e during penetration) while having clitoral stimulation can intensify orgasms even more.
Men can “experience” this point thanks of our prostate, if you are adventurous enough to experiment with prostate play.
But I think that these two combined might be why women orgasm are seen as more intense.
The reason I don’t say better however is that there is a tradeoff. A lot of women report that achieving orgasm can be difficult for them. So while they are more intense, man usually can have them easier. So who’s to say which is better
I can orgasm once and it sometimes lasts for a bit longer and is more intense. My ex could orgasm repeatedly for like 15 minutes, she would have like 30 orgasms or something so i bet she was enjoying it much more than me 😂
Look up images of the actual internal structure of the clitoris. It’s far more massive than the little tiny bud hidden in folds on the outside. It literally wraps around-ish the internal structures such as the vagina, uterus, and bladder, and the feeling can engulf the entire abdomen along with external genitals.
Its all subjective. To some people, women’s orgasms are better due to not having a ‘recharge downtime’ if one may call it such, as well as the oversensitivity and overstimulation, and others think the male orgasm is better because of how easily it can be controlled and the way it enacts a sense of serenity and satisfaction commonly known as ‘post nut clarity’.
Ultimately it comes down to ones own taste.
The only person who can honestly answer this question is someone’s who had both.
Lower cooldown
I’m just going to say it as a comment rather than a reply.
To all you women saying they can’t have multiples, please find a better partner. Ones who will put in the work to make your body do things that even you can’t. These men are out there.
You’ve got it backwards. Although there are outliers because everyone is different of course, women have the upper hand sexually. A man can experience orgasms without ejaculating but it can be extremely difficult to separate the two acts. For the majority of adult men, reaching a climax means ejaculating and therefore recovery time before being ready again. I have heard of some women who share this experience in that once they’re finished, they don’t have any desire to go again but I’ve never met one who couldn’t go again between climaxes unless she became sore or tired.
Plus the female ability to “squirt” is pretty swell. (this is obviously a personal preference and I don’t want to hear shit about whether or not it’s pee. It could be holy water for all I care. It’s dope af).
A male orgasm is like a trumpet with one breath. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. A female orgasm is like a symphony. There is build, tempo, and often multiple bridges.
The trumpet 99% of the time always gets to play, the Orchestra on the other hand is lucky to get anything other than build on average.
I am a man, but from my experience and what I heard:
male only lasts a few seconds. and thats it. you can drag it out
Probably generalization of the standard orgasm.
In society it’s seen as less likely a biological female will finish, and more likely the biological male will.
There has been studies that show women’s nerves are more densely packed into the clitoris where the mans is spread out.
You could also argue that depending on the person that was studied majority of women have a semi-covered clitoris which keeps the nerves “fresh”. Where most men have external genitalia exposed to cloth or the elements, lessening the sensation?
Last some women are able to have multiple or longer lasting experiences, whereas majority of men need a reset/refractory period. However this could be argued either way if you suggest that the male version is so intense it drains men.
The very sad answer is we probably will never be able to truly compare in our lifetimes. (Crossing my fingers for science!)
(Note to all men or women loving persons: Make sure your partners orgasm, its time to kill the stigma of unfinished women)
Idk I’ve seen women orgasm before and it looks a whole helluva lot better than mine though.
It’s feels more intense. Not male, but media makes it seem like a chore for guys?
Why do you even ask this when every answer you get you make a new problem to make your side seem better.
I’m just jealous that my girlfriend can get off multiple times, while also spasming out of bliss and moaning. I can see she is all red from face to chest and visibly worked up.
While for me, as much as I’m very happy for her and love that the feels great, it doesn’t feel physically pleasurable for me up until the end, where I get maybe 5 seconds of pleasure.
Female orgasms typically last longer and are more intense, male orgasms feel great but they take only a little bit longer than sneezing, whereas female orgasms can last for a few seconds or longer.
I would love to experience what a woman feels during an orgasm. They seem amazingly magical from what I see first hand during sex with the wife and from girl friends from the past.
Because biology duuuh
I’d take easier over better any day of the week. Sometimes even by myself I can’t get off or give up trying because it’s taking way too long and my fucking arm hurts.
I don’t see how they know, nor have I heard this.
Answer I’m male, I don’t know.
I suppose EEG could give a plausible answer.
I’m a guy so I can’t say how a woman’s feels, but I believe it would be better for a woman because of the different stimulation areas. Like sure, stuff feels good for a guy, but I’m not gonna finish from anything other than penis stimulation while a woman has the g-spot, clitoris, nipples, etc.