I started talking to this guy and went over to his place for the first time. After awhile I had to pee. So I asked where the bathroom was, and he showed me but then went into the bathroom first and hurried to change out the trash bag.
Definitely some used condoms right? What would be in your trash that you wouldn’t want a new girl to see?
Edit:
The consensus is: If it’s a condom and you’re not exclusive yet- don’t sweat it. And don’t worry unless this becomes a common thing.
And at the end of the day he was probably embarrassed about something gross being in the trash and wouldn’t want a woman he’s interested in, to see that. and think of him as dirty.
Also Thank you all for the answers !
Edit Edit #2: I think it’s butt wipes. You are all spot on whoever said that. Because I remember seeing the empty packaging of those earlier in the hang out sesh!!
so women, when you find this post, just listen and don’t worry 😉
also sorry if I got spicy with you but some of yall really think I’m horrible for being curious 😔
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Maybe bro just forgot to clean it??
Interesting that your mind jumped to “Definitely some condoms”. Could be that he just forgot to change the bag so it’s clean and empty.
I hate taking out the trash so I will wait until I just can’t fit anymore in it before taking it out. Maybe dude is like that and just didn’t want you to think he was a disgusting slob.
You should go through his dumpster like a normal person would do in this situation
Used Kleenex
Blood on tp related to shaving
Used q tips
Used floss
Empty toothpaste tubes
It’s nice to have an empty bag for guests.
Why does it matter?
Why would you want to know what he didn’t want you to know?
Yea, used condoms. Hate the sight of women fainting at the size of them and how much cum each one is filled with.
Prescription medicine bottles. Gross used tissues. Used feminine hygiene products from a visitor.
My ex’s
I was dating a guy once and went into his bathroom cabinet looking for a fresh roll of toilet paper (it was empty) and I found medicine for crabs… never went back 🙁
More likely Q-Tips in all honesty. I don’t need any girl I bring home for the first time to see my ear wax lol
Why would condoms go in the bathroom trash can? It was probably just full of old stuff. Maybe he had been meaning to take it out for a couple of months?
It being full, anything jiz related condoms or nut rag. Maybe he dumped shaved pubes?
If it were me I’d just be changing it to make it look nicer.
Maybe he was just being polite and wanted to make a good first impression? People can be judgemental about really stupid shit.
I dye my beard. When I’m done I wipe the applicator with some toilet paper and throw it in the trash. The dye dries and looks like poop.
Oh yeah, and sometimes I use a wipe. I know they say they’re flushable but I have a septic system and I don’t need another problem in my house. When I’m done with the wipe(s) I throw them in the trash. They have actual poop on them.
It’s a habit now to make sure that I empty that trash bag before my girlfriend comes over so she doesn’t have to see those things.
Something that would spoil the surprise at the end of the date, like the corpse of the person i dated before her.
I would have thought just regular stuff and maybe it was a bit full?
Could be anything really. Evidence of another woman, something you might judge him for like a sex toy box, condoms, or enema. Or something even worse, like he cleaned the hair our of the shower drain and it was just a big nasty ball sitting and stinking in the can.
I say you keep what happened in mind, but don’t make any assumptions yet. The explanation could be completely innocent or something crazier, but you don’t know. He could’ve forgotten to take the trash out and it was full, he could’ve had something in there that was embarrassing but normal, or something else. At this point it seems to be too early for anything to be considered cheating. I’d only worry if there are patterns of behavior or other warning signs.
Hmm. I live alone. I expect it was just something like the bin obviously hadn’t been emptied for some time, which he thought you may judge him by.
A wad of shitty toilet paper I forgot about, a butt plug, drugs, cosmetics, and any given feminine thing, or any nerdy one, perhaps
It’s plausible but there’s many other options
Nothing. Personally, I would be embarrased if a woman went in there and the trashcan was full. I’d want to tidy up the bathroom before she went in. Normally I’d do it before going out on a date, but, if I didn’t expect a woman at my place, it may not have been clean. I don’t want to be perceived as a slob.
My first thought was something he would be embarrassed by. Empty bottle of bubble bath? Used face mask? Doritos bag? Empty tube of toenail anti-fungal cream?
Dont overthink it.
If it was normal trash, why bother.
Yes, not ideal, but trash is trash.
Why is everyone gaslighting op that this is normal behavior? It is not, he acting like he forgot thats where he hides his drugs stache or guns or whatever is not normal or rational.
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Maybe it was used not-flushable toilet wipes
Could be all sorts of dumb things.