Yes, I know there’s an entire body of science about how commonly people find symmetrical features attractive, etc.
But this isn’t about what is “most attractive” or “most appealing” to the majority of people, the entire purpose of this forum is to share a subjective, personal opinion that we think is probably unpopular. So, here it is.
I find someone who is distinctive to be more attractive than someone who is not. And it is very often the imperfections that make someone distinctive. I have repeatedly seen Bella Hadid mentioned as one of the most beautiful women in the world, and I have read several descriptions of her that emphasize “her symmetrical face” as one of the reasons. But, to me – especially in the face – she just looks bland.
The same is true of most of the celebrity women who get trotted out as examples of beauty, or beauty standards, or whatever. ESPECIALLY the ones who have gotten a lot of work done to eliminate “imperfections”. They just look so… generic. It also goes true for a lot of pictures people post on social media; especially with lots of makeup and/or filters.
The idea that “symmetrical, no blemishes” = “beauty” is weird to me. Because that just sounds like genericizing people to eliminate any personal physical distinctiveness. I fully acknowledge that there are broad trends, and commonly agreed upon beauty standards and ideals. I just think that those minor “imperfections” that are commonly hidden behind makeup, filters, or cosmetic surgery more often make someone stand out, make them more distinctive, more memorable, and more beautiful.
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Imperfections add character. Imperfect looking people don’t have people telling them they are amazing all the time, so develop more of a personality.
Depends on the imperfection
I agree OP, symmetry is boring
have an upvote, my imperfections just make me ugly OP 🤣
I only disagree in the fact that this only works for people who look moderately attractive from the start.
If you’re ugly with a ton of imperfections, I have bad news for you.
This isn’t really unpopular.
Really??? such a discovery you made.
This is default prompt for normal good looking humans:
(perfect eyes, detailed eyes, detailed face, detailed hair)
[body hair], <– surprise!
(detailed skin, skin texture, skin pores, goosebumps:0.7), <– and this too
(skin blemishes, skin imperfections:0.7) <—– yes it is
I think the key is not one OR the other, but a uniqueness from the blending of imperfections and symmetry
To create a unique individual
Some physical imperfections + sex appeal make a person attractive but still attainable. The competition and insecurity we associate with pursuing someone perfect is too strong of a turn-off.
when i like someone, the little imperfections are so dear to me and only make them so much cuter
could be a variety of things
i want to know their real face, i want to watch it change…falling in love is taking all that in and liking it more