I 20F have been with my fiancé since we were young (4 years now) he is 22M. We got engaged earlier this year and have an amazing relationship, we have had rough patches and worked through it. We’re in an amazing place. The problem is his friend also 22M was stuck for somewhere to live. So we took him in, the agreement was temporary till he could sort something permanent. There was no problems till the comments started “this is permanent now then” and comments about how he was getting meals made for him (payed for by us too) and it was restaurant service, he would leave dirty dishes in kitchen after this. This I could get over but our situation is that my dad owns the house but lets us live on our own in it rent/utility free (I’m aware that our situation is very lucky), his friend knew this and started comments about how he had “more of a right to be here” as he was paying toward utilities to my dad. I did have to stop myself from being petty and commenting how this is due to the fact he isn’t family, I’m not proud that it came into my head but I also think I was correct and not in wrong, I didn’t speak this out loud. The friend continued to not help around the house and it came to a head, I told him to start helping or go somewhere else. He moved out and now is blaming me to everyone we mutually know that I kicked him out and that I was in the wrong. He was here for 6 months. So am I the asshole? I really want to know as I second doubt myself. I’m happy to answer any questions, thank you.
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My fiance has supported me through this and had spoken to the friend previously. Nothing changed, our engagement party is soon and he fully agrees with not inviting said friend even though he has left the house as he understands how this has all made me feel.