So a few months ago a man started messaging me online and we’ve been communicating on a regular basis. We both share personal information about our lives from time to time. This guy lives with his parents and he told me his brother doesn’t live with him. He will mention his sister and other family members, but rarely talks about his brother.
Long story short, while on Google, I was able to find a guy with the same name as his brothers who was arrested for a few things like possession of a narcotic, home invasion and multiple larceny offenses. I’m not completely sure if this is his brother, but the names, age, and city all match. There is a very good chance this could be his brother, I just don’t know what he looks like because he told me he doesn’t have photos of him.
I know he doesn’t have to share this with me if it is true. But we’ve both shared very personal parts of our lives with one another. I’ve thought about asking him but I’m a bit worried.
Edit: I’m a woman and he’s romantically interested in me which is why I feel a bit weird about this. Also, anytime I ask about his brother he gives me vague responses about his job and other things. He’s also told me that he’s no longer close to him but I didn’t think anything of it.
I also know that it’s a bit weird for me to find this information. But again I don’t know him and just wanted to be safe while talking to a stranger.