I met my now wife right at 30. I remember being in the same area for most of my life and feeling like I had exhausted the dating pool. I then moved to a more populated area and bam, there were plenty of beautiful, interesting women available, so some of it really is location based.
I also had these sense of “the good ones are all taken” and to some degree that was true, but there were still plenty of good ones out there.
As difficult as with every age.
I was more confident than in my 30ies and could communicate my values straight up in order not to waste anyone’s time, and it was great.
Met my wife,too.
Honestly, dating was way easier after 30 then in my 20s. Especially if you know what you’re looking for and you’ve learned too cut out those bad habits when it comes to being with someone ( like enjoying toxic traits, wanting to argue to just argue).
I dated alot in my 30s and then found love and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life.
Its at the same time easier and harder than when you were younger. People are more chill but cautious which means if the stars align you can have a very loving thing happening that is way better than whatever you had when you were younger.
Love? Or love that has kids? Because one is near impossible to find like a Mouse trap game that has all its pieces and the easy one is on any dating app if you swipe right…
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I met my now wife right at 30. I remember being in the same area for most of my life and feeling like I had exhausted the dating pool. I then moved to a more populated area and bam, there were plenty of beautiful, interesting women available, so some of it really is location based.
I also had these sense of “the good ones are all taken” and to some degree that was true, but there were still plenty of good ones out there.
Are you talking to the rich men or average men?
Basically it’s pure luck but some of good options already out of the pool.
Depends how attractive you are
For me, much easier. Was far more successful dating in my 40s than my 20s. Now 62 and met my wife at 45.
Met my wife at speed dating when I was 32.
I’ll tell you when I find it
Far more women available to date after 30 than before.
As difficult as with every age.
I was more confident than in my 30ies and could communicate my values straight up in order not to waste anyone’s time, and it was great.
Met my wife,too.
That depends on you and your situation
Much easier than previously because women that age and above are much more straightforward.
Pretty easy. But I didn’t have issues before 30 either.
Not hard at all. Dating is harder in your 20’s.
I live in the south, if you didn’t get a girl pregnant in high school and were forced to marry her at gunpoint you missed the boat entirely.
Pretty fucking easy. Dating in all aspects has gotten exponentially easier over my 30s compared to my 20s.
Not hard at all. I have fallen in love three different times since I got divorced at age 41. This last one stuck.
Harder for me because I don’t get out much. But it’s easier to talk and have conversations because we’re all adults and it’s just easier to talk.
Honestly, dating was way easier after 30 then in my 20s. Especially if you know what you’re looking for and you’ve learned too cut out those bad habits when it comes to being with someone ( like enjoying toxic traits, wanting to argue to just argue).
I dated alot in my 30s and then found love and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life.
Its at the same time easier and harder than when you were younger. People are more chill but cautious which means if the stars align you can have a very loving thing happening that is way better than whatever you had when you were younger.
Met my wife at 31
Love? Or love that has kids? Because one is near impossible to find like a Mouse trap game that has all its pieces and the easy one is on any dating app if you swipe right…