My gf just told me she’s pregnant

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We’ve been together 4 years I’m scared and excited same time. We tried for a time after 2.5 years but now this happens after not really trying. She told me to use the ring money on a baby shower and maternity shoot.

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  1. Redraw13 Avatar

    Congratulations to you both, your lives are about to change more than you can imagine

  2. bradlap Avatar

    My wife’s engagement ring was $92 USD on Etsy. You can buy nice rings without hurting your savings! Good luck with everything 🙂

  3. 143Emanate34Elaborat Avatar

    Congratulations.

    When I was younger, I never planned on having kids.

    My daughter has just turned 16, and was/is the best thing to ever happen to me, she’s so awesome.

  4. cafescafes Avatar

    Being a parent is awesome, truly. The newborn baby phase is cute but when they enter toddlerhood and start displaying their own personality is really when it gets fun imo. It’s not so much as a sacrifice as it is a change in where you spend your energy. As far as where that energy comes from, it’ll come naturally once the baby arrives. Congratulations!

  5. Sensitive-Dog82 Avatar

    Congratulations to both of you. Kids are a crazy ride, but you soon can’t imagine a life without them. Me and my wife have been together for around 15 years and have two kids, 13 and 9, and in 2 weeks, we’re just now getting married.

    Do things your way.

  6. PlazmaFlamez Avatar

    bro has the biological goal of life done 👌🏻

  7. PurrpleNeko2022 Avatar

    Congrats! Just make sure you file legal paperwork to give you medical power of attorney (or your country’s equivalent) should anything happen to her during pregnancy/ delivery. Last thing you want is the hospital/ facility/ even family blocking you for not being her husband.

  8. smileysarah267 Avatar

    Congrats!!! I’ve heard women get pregnant when they stop trying because their stress levels go down.

  9. Thats-whats-up323 Avatar