I dated a girl with Williams syndrome in college AMA

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*not here to diagnose anybody etc just here to answer questions

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  1. ReasonableEscape777 Avatar

    Is that the puppy dog syndrome ?? Did you feel like you were taking advantage of her ?

  2. John_Thacker Avatar

    what is williams syndrome

  3. Thumperblossom Avatar

    Did you know when you first met her? 

  4. Hfin7 Avatar

    Why did you break up?

  5. A5623 Avatar

    Do you have any co condition yourself?

  6. Rudirs Avatar

    Did anyone (including yourself) have judgements about dating someone with a relatively severely different mental state?

    I’m a bit neurodivergent, and have friends/family members who have severe autism and/or other delays/disabilities/whatever. I think most people frown on a certain amount of mismatch between mental capacities, but it’s hard to judge how wide the gap can/should be.

  7. HairyHorseKnuckles Avatar

    One of the symptoms is delays in cognitive development. Do you not find it unethical to date someone who doesn’t fully understand consent?

  8. hiphoptomato Avatar

    Did she have an intellectual disability? I’m reading that people with William’s syndrome typically have an IQ of 50-70. If so, did you feel like you were taking advantage of her? Some people might see a relationship like this as imbalanced or predatory.

  9. turntteacher Avatar

    Just want to say as a sped teacher, I’ve had the pleasure of working with two students with Williams syndrome. I would pay money to always have someone with Williams syndrome in my classroom. Even at their worst they don’t have hateful bone in their body. I read you struggled with anger before dating her. Could tell us a bit more about the impact her personality, and approach to life had on your own personality and approach?

  10. seancbo Avatar

    Which kind of Williams did she have? Robin? Serena? I’ve heard Pharrell is one of the hardest to deal with.

  11. doctorwhoobgyn Avatar

    Were there unforseen challenges in the relationship that someone might not anticipate? Other than her moving away, of course.

  12. WarmTransportation35 Avatar

    Did she support Williams Formula 1 team and are you a fan of Williams F1 team?

  13. caught-n-candie Avatar

    Did you discuss the future like marriage and a family? (Genetics)

  14. xiegfried0721 Avatar

    Best memory of her? And why you broke up?