My boyfriend makes me feel like a princess. How do i do it to him too?

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Let me explain a bit. We have been together for 5 months now and the relationship is picture perfect. He compliments me, lifts me up when im feeling down and all that stuff. I feel like im on cloud nine but also im feeling like im not giving enough as in he is the only one doing all this. I dont know how to make him feel special and loved. The only things that i do is ocasionally bring him something i baked or usually im the one paying for stuff but i feel like thats not enough. I also like to call him a lot and do stuff with him together but again thats not something that makes him go wild. What should i do?

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  2. AssMasterXL Avatar

    Just treat him like a prince, as you do.

  3. Ronin-6248 Avatar

    Words of affirmation. Tell him you’re happy. Tell him you appreciate his efforts. Most men don’t hear this nearly enough.

  4. The_Marigold_Squeeze Avatar

    It’s crude but 9/10 times it’s the truth… suck him… a lot. He’ll feel like a king.

  5. ChazzyTh Avatar

    Say what you wrote so he knows how special he makes you feel. That means more than you know. Men spend a lot of mental energy wondering if we’re doing it right, same as you. Special food treats are priceless so you’re on the right track. Encouragement and sincere compliments do wonders for our ego.

  6. Tricky-Task8193 Avatar

    A princess? Buy him some heels?

  7. fearstreetgang Avatar

    clearly you love everything he does for u. just make sure you let him know how grateful you are.

  8. Aok54 Avatar

    A way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Cook him his favorite meal from scratch.

  9. Practical_Garage2526 Avatar

    Men are simple. Be there for him. Just you being there to support him, his goals his dreams, listening to his problems is enough for men. I feel like for the most part. But like baking is good. I’m sure he appreciates that. Little things like idk taking him out on a date once a month or writing him letters or cooking him a meal he would like is enough and he will appreciate it tons (:

  10. ConsistentAct2237 Avatar

    Talk him up!! Guys do not get that nearly enough!
    I tell my guy alllll the time the things I like about him. I run my hands up his arms, tell him what a specimen he is.

  11. Sebas223 Avatar

    Be sincere and give him lots of compliments. Also, if he has any nerdy fascinations, ask him about it. Does he collect a certain something? Ask him about his collection. Is he into sports? Ask him about his favorite team. Really indulge him in telling you about his interests. If you can genuinely engage him in his hobby, he will literally be head over heels for you.

  12. OverzealousMachine Avatar

    You learn their love language. I’m very high maintenance and my love language is acts of service. My husband does an insane amount of things for me and I often feel like I don’t do enough for him, but the thing is, his love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. So basically, as long as I tell him how great he is and give him foot and back rubs, he’s happy as a clam and feels just as loved as I do.

  13. Carg98 Avatar

    Dress him up in a sparkle dress, with a crown and star wand. He’s now fetling like a fairy princess. Or a complete twat, one or the other 🫅

  14. NummmNutz Avatar

    So, you want to make your man feel like a princess, do ya?

    Well, I think the best way is to dress him up in a pink princess dress and peg him right in his bussy.

    I mean really go to town on that bussy of his.

    Make him feel like the little princess you want him to be.

  15. Maleficent_Scene_693 Avatar

    Learn how to give a good back rub. It’s a kind gesture but if you dont know how to do it right my gawd does it suck haha

  16. True_Coast1062 Avatar

    What’s his love language? Clearly he knows yours! Is it acts of service? Is it home-cooked food? Is it sexy sex?

  17. weird-oh Avatar

    I guess you could make him feel like a princess by buying him a tiara.

  18. ZzzzDaily Avatar

    Daily BJ. And refer to it as " the Royal Penis".

  19. Flashy-Hall6899 Avatar

    Keep those nuts empty

  20. CycleZealousideal669 Avatar

    Play with the ballsz

  21. Wemest Avatar

    And tease him. Nothing better than a text that says “when I see you ….”

  22. Rastryth Avatar

    He took you to Paris and a nice restaurant? Don’t let him drive you home.

  23. Iamwomper Avatar

    Let him be your prince?

  24. Scorpiogre_rawrr Avatar

    Tell him to lay his head on your lap,and then just rub his temple, ear, hand comb his hair, and, hers the most important part, say the following:

    I wanted you to know you’re an incredible partner and lover. So what’s been going on with school, work, friends, family? (whatever fits)

    Allow him to just speak, a gentle go on, or whatever will do, that move, and he’ll feel like a GOD, guaranteed.

  25. Fantastic-Science-32 Avatar

    Give him a flower and gifts! Cookies would do. I think you just being thoughtful will do it for him. Don’t overextend yourself, with sex or anything.

  26. SmallReporter3369 Avatar

    Ask his mom for his favorite cookie recipe. Bake the cookies.

  27. Global_Profession_26 Avatar

    Whenever something controversial comes up. Deal with it like a boss. For example, he quits his job because he wants to, and you shrug it off and say I wouldn’t deal with that either. Boom. Match made in heaven. That was just an example. 

  28. JeremiahAhriman Avatar

    Well, it starts by looking up the word "pegging" in the Urban Dictionary…

  29. welcome-overlords Avatar

    Be easy. I have a lot of stressors im my life and id really appreciate someone who is making my life easier, just being chill and stress lowering

  30. Rosir3d Avatar

    Thank him with a good blowjob. Not even the best cake beats that for a man. Then he’ll get hungry and then you can cook him something haha

  31. Asgardian_Angel Avatar

    Just ask him! "What makes you feel most loved?" Finding out his love language goes a long way!

    •Physical touch(sensual or non sensual)

    •Words of affirmation(genuine complimenting him in many ways)

    •Gift giving(it doesn’t have to be expensive, it can be a batch of his favorite cookies)

    •Acts of service(completing tasks for him, you know he doesn’t like to do)

    •Quality time(Listening to his thoughts and concerns about life or a goal/dream/hobby he wants to chase. Also, though something called Parallel play! It can be spending time snuggling while he watches tv, plays a favorite video game. You both doing separate things in close proximity.)