I caved and decided to see an escort while traveling next week, Im 25 years old and never been with a girl, I gave it too much time to meet someone(been trying since 21 since my last “relationship”), I did come close a couple of times other than that, I was never was in a serious relationship or something similar, next week I’ll be in Belgium for a vacation and decided to meet an escort, not only because I need this physically, but also because I think its pathetic for me to be a virgin and 25.
I’m not a bad looking guy, everyone says the opposite, but I do hate how I look, and not confident enough, also I’m just unlucky and most importantly an introvert, plus for the past year I’ve been very very depressed.
I feel weird about this, and I know I’m gonna enjoy this, but I hope I dont regret this, (obviously gonna use a condom)
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Have fun browski.
As a former SW get checked up afterwards too and ask if she’s been tested recently. SERIOUSLY. IDK what the laws are like in Belgium re: SW but for the love of god ask for verification she’s been tested and ask about protocols. Some people/places have different protocols.
ETA: and have fun and give her a tip if you can! Just be kind, most likely she’ll probably show you the ropes. It is usually pretty apparent when a guy is green and she’s seen it all. Everyone has different rules but generally let her know before you decide to do something new or switch it up.
I’m not reading all that but why are you wanting to shag an old car?
Good for you. You may want to fire a couple off before you go so that you last longer and get more bang for your buck.
Would someone please enlighten me here to the fact that its difficult meeting a woman now? I mean for companionship, which could lead to something more. Is it that much harder now for younger men? I’m 41 btw.
Just like with any woman give them a massage, alot of foreplay, and go down on them. Ask what they like. Could buy a dental dam.
Man, being a virgin now days is a flex,
Don’t lose it to regret it later.
I will be waiting for the update of this.
Honestly I’m close to doing the same thing…just idk
You deserve a good woman.
Damn that’s rough bro
I did that too. Worst mistake of my life… Well maybe not the worst but top 3 for sure. Bro it’s not worth it, trust me. Don’t do it!
I’m 31F and still a virgin. It’s not pathetic to wait. For me I want to give myself to my soulmate.
Please, I ask you to reconsider. You are more than worthy of a loving relationship with good intimacy. Trust me when I say giving yourself to a woman that sells her body will have an affect on you. And think of the future too, you may disclose this to your future partner. She may feel some kind of way about it. I know I would if a guy I like confessed to sleeping with an escort before we met.
It’s worth the wait. There are plenty of women out there looking for the same thing as you. Patience is hard but it will be worth it.
Enjoy yourself! Nothing wrong with losing your virginity to an escort.
you’re gonna have fun, just don’t jerk before going, stay intact and try to stay off of it for a couple days leading up to the visit
If you have to pay does it really count?
No, you’re going to regret your whole life
Real life is different from what you saw in corn or on insta reels
There are plenty of good girls ready to settle, go, and get marry to one of them
Have fun!
I have a friend who is turning 40 and is still a virgin. He wishes he had gone to a SW and now feels embarrassed to even do that, because of how old and green he is.
Why haven’t you been able to get with a girl without paying?
I used to be a bit insecure, but got drunk and a girl jumped me then I realized that the things I was insecure about were so stupid and didn’t matter at all and I was off to the ranges!
Do your research and think long and hard about this man. They aren’t all trafficked, but a lot of them are- if i could encourage you to reconsider, that is.
No shame for anyone who partakes in it, but I don’t think it will help you like you think it would and sex means much more when it’s with someone you at least care about- it’s better too.
Dude it’s not worth it trust me
“I do hate how I look, and not confident enough”
There are ways to fix this brother, this is all there is to it.
Biggest waste of money IMO but hey Yolo 🤷🏻♂️
Put that sexy ass in doggy man.
I lost mine centuries ago to a high priced escort way out of my league. It was fucking amazing and can still remember her smell and smooth skin.