I have access to my significant other’s email and they know it. I check it for their work schedule but usually that’s the only email i click on. So 2 weeks ago i check their email to see their schedule for the upcoming week and I see that they’ve recently was on a website looking at engagement rings. I click on it and see that theyve picked out a beautiful diamond. I mark it unread and go on. Then last weekend while they were in the shower, their daughter accidentally blurted out that my significant other is planning on proposing. We’ve only been seeing one another for a year but known each other for 30 years. They even stopped themselves yesterday from calling me their wife.
So I’m thinking I should act surprised when they do it. What do yall think?
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I doesn’t matter if you know. When it happens you will still be/ feel shocked and the reaction you will have is exactly what you both fantasize about 😊
There is nothing worse than complete dishonesty. Hiding what they are doing and being so brazen about it is honestly terrible. It was only a matter of time before someone blurted it out, and finding out this way is quite honestly the worst way.With the severity of the lies and deceit,you should totally play along.As angry as I am,congratulations, and I hope everything goes extremely well for you!Honestly, I can’t get over this. I wish you well.Edit: Humour is not my strong point, so I shall go back to lurking. Thanks for all the feedback.
They probably know you know, but are waiting for their moment, let them have it. I think if you were to mention it before it would take the edge off it
Assert your dominance early. Buy a bigger ring and propose to them before they can do it to you.
The fact that you have access to his emails and check them is a red flag. If it makes you feel better to say you only check it for his schedule then keep telling yourself that. but you have some serious trust issues and if I was him I’d think twice about marrying a women who says she innocently checks my email because eventually it won’t be innocently.
Just act surprised and congratulations 🎉 🎉🎉
Of course, you have to pretend to be surprised.
Hell yes.
Honestly, you will probably still be surprised ahen they propose. I knew my husband was planning on proposing after we were together for a year and it still completely caught me off guard.
When my husband proposed to me before a vacation, he left the bag from the jewelry store on his desk. I noticed it when I was going around for the last “check” before heading out the door.
So obviously I 100% knew it was happening. I acted surprised in the moment. I also basically forgot myself because I was soaking up the moment. but I did tell him afterwards and he found it hilarious. (In general he sucks at surprises and always wants to tell)
No, you go and propose before they do.