We’ve been together since the start of the year. And admittedly, it started out hot and fast. We get along great most of the time, but she can be the meanest woman I’ve ever met over the smallest things. Otherwise times she’s the sweetest person in the world. I’m confused. That’s all.
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Sit down and have a talk with her and see how the dice lands. Communication is key. If she flips her lid, you know what to do.
You can love someone and still not like them anymore. Relationships aren’t about just surviving the good times—they’re about handling the bad ones too. If she’s flipping from sweet to mean over the smallest things, that’s not a quirk, that’s a red flag. You’re not her emotional punching bag, and love shouldn’t feel like walking on eggshells. If the sweetness is inconsistent and the meanness is regular, maybe it’s time to assess if you’re still compatible or just comfortable. Don’t mistake love for tolerance—you deserve someone who makes you feel respected all the time, not just when they feel like it.
Just go with your gut feeling but this is a red flag 🚩
My wife is like and I’ll tell you now. It will drag you down and make you just roll your eyes at her everything she says. Most minor inconveniences is like a ten minute story of nothing. It’s a drag man.
Same
Being alone is hard being miserable is hard pick your hard