i feel extremely alone after all these years. since the age of 17 i am craving to have a boyfriend, do nice things with him like going on a simple coffee date, movies, do legos with him, having little walks and hold hands, nothing much. i just need it and it feels like i’m too late when i see my friends with their bf’s and gf’s and it hurts but thats whole another thing.
there’s been some guys i talked to but i could never passed the talking phase. i mean they were just some guys from internet, and i couldn’t really see them as a future boyfriend tho, and i barely have crushes. my first crush was in high school and i opened up to him and got rejected. then i had a uni crush this year but i found out he has a gf and then didnt do anything. i had some stupid online relationships but i don’t count them cuz we never met.
there is another fact that im not really social, maybe that’s the reason maybe not, idk. and my looks are okay too, i dont think that is the reason. and i think im good at flirting too, when i have situationships i know that. i just can’t find anyone.
p.s please don’t send me messages im not writing this to find someone here, i just feel bad about it and i wanted to share.
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Building legos with someone is a dream! You’re a catch, I’m sure you’re gonna get your man 🙂
Just be you, and he’ll turn up, have faith 🙂
Hope you find your man soon
I know how you feel, but atleast you have people around you. Like everyone says keep focusing on yourself and do the things you like to do and someone will come and join the ride ✌️
I’m 23f and same. though it’s my own fault – turned down guys (I wasn’t attracted to them and it’s not fair to them), didn’t care for relationship until last year (had lots of trauma due to dysfunctional family and had a negative example, didn’t want to repeat that) and also I put 0 effort into finding one – I don’t make a move (would rather die, unless drunk, then I’m bold), don’t seek out, don’t hint or communicate. I kinda thought it would happen eventually on its own…until it I didn’t. I’m not here to give advice as I’m not qualified, just wanted to give support and make you feel less alone. I have quite an international group of friends and they’re 20- 25 and never been in a relationship either, all attractive and decent people, so it’s more common than social media make it seem. you’re totally not alone and it’s ok
How many dm you got??