I’ve always found myself attractive to both genders and recently have been open about it. But now I don’t know what I am. I’ve only ever hooked up or dated guys. But I feel like I hook up with them only because I know that’s what they are looking for. I’ve never had great experience or actually gotten off by anyone. I find people sexually attractive but once it actually gets to the sex part I feel detached. Being a female is something I’ve always been okay with but sometimes I feel uncomfortable with how I look. Sometimes I like looking more like a guy than a girl or feeling like a guy. I don’t really like being perceived as a girl but I feel like being perceived as a guy wouldn’t be any better. How do I figure out what makes me comfortable?
Sexuality and gender??
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U need to explore yourself
I would encourage you to check out r/egg_irl . That’s about all the advice I can give.
For me I just decided in Liv, and sometimes Liv looks great in a dress. She also kills a suit. Liv is just Liv and she’s gonna do what she feels represents her day by day. I personally decided I’m ok with she/her pronouns cause like I said Liv is just Liv no matter what anyone thinks. But you could personally align with nonbinary. This isn’t me discrediting anyone else’s experience, but I genuinely felt the same way my whole life. Then I realized it just didn’t matter to know it label it, I just needed to be me