what do i do if i cant look up when giving a blow job?

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so i discovered men prefer women looking them in the eyes when giving them head but i have a lazy eye, i think its not that often but it happens sometimes and im afraid to look up and have a lazy eye, that would be embarassing..does anyone have any tips for that?

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  1. StillSimple6 Avatar

    Not every guy does, I don’t.

    You can always just lean back and look.

  2. fireballsack08 Avatar

    Concentrate on the work south of the navel šŸ˜Ž

  3. Real_Tradition4127 Avatar

    Play their balls, and glanced at someone for short. Just admire their penis and give couple glances so that way you won’t have lazy eye

  4. JadeGrapes Avatar

    The reason they like eye contact is because emotionally healthy men STRONGLY prefer consent & enthusiasm in their sexual partner.

    Thats why porn has so much over the top sounds from the woman… her “being into it” matters a LOT.

    If you can’t give eye contact, just give other nonverbal signs that you are enjoying the activity.

  5. ReadMorePostLess Avatar

    If you moaned and gave me the lazy eye, I’d love it

  6. shoulda-known-better Avatar

    Get lower and tilt it down a bit so as you go up your eyes are already facing their face…. And if your still having trouble just lick the tip and look

    But I’d make sure they want you to actually look at them…. Because its pretty 50/50 on if they do or not!

  7. nonsensicalinsanity Avatar

    Never had someone giving me head look me in the eyes. But i also prefer doing it where i can’t see. Not because i don’t want to see my partner but i prefer the unknown. For all i know they could end up stabbing and capping me

  8. Acebladewing Avatar

    Just tell him that his dick is so big it makes you go crosseyed trying to swallow the massive thing. He’ll love seeing that lazy eye from then on.

  9. dodgystyle Avatar

    I find sometimes due to the angle of their penis or body type (e.g. large stomach) or how they’re laying, it’s much harder to look them in the eyes. So I’ll try to give as much eye contact as possible right before actually sucking, or when I come up for air.

  10. Incredulity1995 Avatar

    That would probably work in your favor. Look up ā€œAhegaoā€. It’s a pretty popular topic.

  11. Bennu-Babs Avatar

    I think you’re out of luck. If I don’t have constant eye contact I politely yet firmly ask them to stop and remove them from the property.

  12. fandom_rocks_ Avatar

    Then darling you keep that head down and you keep doing the good work.

  13. Jackesfox Avatar

    I cant keep eye contact, im neurodivergent

  14. HareevHajina Avatar

    I don’t like direct eye contact while my gf is doing it. I think it’s hotter if she’s 100% focused on my dick. Eye contact is distracting and makes me feel weird because I don’t know what I look like from that angle either.

  15. Not_me_no_way Avatar

    Na, I’d rather the 69 position

  16. numberforty Avatar

    Oh my goodness you have no idea! Haven’t you heard of ahegao? If I’m getting my dick sucked and you gimme that natural ahegao look, I might just blast away there and then. Point being many men, if not all, would love that!

  17. Butthole_Ticklah Avatar

    I once dated a girl with a cockeye.

    Meaning she had her eye on another guys cock

  18. BlackOliveBurrito Avatar

    Close your eyes lol that’s what I do if I can’t look up

  19. Gravelayer Avatar

    Pretend to struggle and just say it’s a bit big to keep your eye open lol they will probably will be distracted by the confidence boost . Either that or just look at the while playing with the tip?

  20. 0ctopodidae Avatar

    Tip 1. Only 69.
    Tip 2. Tell him that looking up cause your jaw to clench.

  21. Mikko420 Avatar

    I don’t think a guy in his right mind would be bothered.

  22. HairyHorseKnuckles Avatar

    My eyes are usually closed so her looking up would be pointless

  23. the2xstandard Avatar

    Just keep suckin’ he’ll forgive you.

  24. seeder33 Avatar

    Im assuming the guy already knows you have it so whats the big deal. I think eye contact is huge so just try it, sincerely doubt he’d complain.

  25. shakeyfire Avatar

    Omg!! Girl same i have a lazy eye and rheyll see it if i look up like that so i just dont. Maybe once or twice a guy asked me to look at him and i just ignored him lol. And then recently a guy did and i was just straight up. ā€œI have an eye thing(get as specific as u want) i cant look that wayā€ and he didnt care at all. And my bf obviously knkws and doesnt care in the slightest. I usually just close my lazy eye if it isnt aligning

  26. NoIdea2424 Avatar

    Wear goggles or get a seeing eye dog.

  27. 88redking88 Avatar

    Im sure if you get to that point that they know already, right?

    You could….

    Do it anyway. Ask if its a turn on.

    Wear an eye patch and have fun with it (if you are comfortable)

    Wink?

    Really, its a BJ, he isnt going to complain unless he is a jerk, in which case you should not be doing it for him.

  28. ScruffyGrouch Avatar

    Draw eyes on one of your hands or put those stick on googly eyes and hold that one up for him while doing the deed.

    Double the points if you make your hand talk, too.

    gif

  29. Due-Neighborhood2082 Avatar

    I’m super weird about eye contact during anything intimate, even with my husband who I’m super comfortable with. I for 20 years I gave him blowjobs without looking at him. I literally looked him during one for the first time like two days ago. I think he’ll be fine and just as appreciative even if you don’t make eye contact.

  30. bubba1834 Avatar

    Lazy eye gang unite! Except mines chronic and I’m a lesbian lol

  31. Fancy_Chip_5620 Avatar

    As a dude it would be weird to be looked in the eye for more than a couple seconds while recovering a bj

  32. ThannBanis Avatar

    Don’t look up.

    Most (all?) men would prefer blow job without looking up to no blow job.

    (Seriously, who told you that anyway?)

  33. hatemakingnames1 Avatar

    Dress like a pirate and put on an eyepatch

  34. Humans_Suck- Avatar

    69 him and set him to work

  35. gigashadowwolf Avatar

    I wouldn’t worry so much about that.

    It’s way less important than you’re probably thinking.

    We like it because we feel more connected to you, we can see how you are feeling about it.

    There are definitely other ways you can accomplish the same thing.

    Moaning helps a lot, it also feels good because it vibrates.

    Use your hands to touch him and grab him.

    I know it sounds weird, but for me, I also take it as a compliment if the girl starts playing with herself or gyrating her hips. It makes me feel like she’s enjoying it, and that’s basically what we want to see.

  36. LucDA1 Avatar

    Their cock in your mouth, don’t care if you have 4 lazy eyes they’re enjoying themselves

  37. Vehicle-Obvious Avatar

    Paint some false eyes on your forehead

  38. Meeting_the_gruffalo Avatar

    I like it but it doesn’t have to be constant. Also like to have eye contact when going down.

    If you want to look up and draw attention, I’d normally go a bit more aggressive then do something they really… Appreciate. There is no hard and fast rule to that for men or women so find out I suppose.

    Personally I like eye contact on head less shaft, I find that a bit weird and weird angle for me.

    Lastly once you finish and want to know just ask what was good.

  39. clara_latte Avatar

    Position yourself so your butt gets all the attention. He’ll forget about any unnecessary eye contact.

  40. NEON_TYR0N3 Avatar

    I don’t know, man, eye contact during a bj makes me think about Oliver Twist