I donāt like them if itās from someone I care about because it feels weird. I think the way that act is used as an insult has made me not want to have it with people I care about. I canāt think of another reason.
They are ok, when done right itās amazing but too few girls enjoy giving them so itās a nice appetizer. I actually prefer handjobs just it takes me back to a different time
Wouldn’t say don’t like, but they just don’t feel as amazing as whatever the stereotypical hype would lead to believe. That’s just me. Other guys apparently go bananas for it. Such is life.
Edit: It doesn’t matter if its done “right” or “wrong” or who is doing it. I’ve run the whole gamut of BJs and know and appreciate the difference. I just find them kind of boring (despite the feeling) and would rather be engaged in more exciting ways.
Because it takes way too long to come. Like 30 minutes plus. I’m frustrated, the girl is frustrated and has swollen bleeding lips. It’s just not forceful enough. I need to be pounding away in order to come.
Pussy is like a luxury sedan – always warm, soft, and comfortable, and almost guaranteed to get you where you need to go
Anal is like a 1998 jeep wrangler – takes a lot of maintenance, is definitely not for everyone, and needs dedicated prep-work and clean up, but can be really fucking fun to ride it around a dirt road getting all filthy
Blowjobs are like a top of the range hypercar – in the hands of a pro it can do things you wouldnāt believe, but most people have no idea how to handle it
Itās not like I HATE all about blowjobs. I just find a handjob with some lip and tongue potentially much more affectionate and delicate. There can be more variation and contact. I donāt mind the sucking my dick head/tip,which can be very sexy, but I really donāt like my dick deep in anybodyās throat, which both feels rough and uncomfortable for me (no teeth, please!) and for the giver. The whole gagging thing just feels like re-enacting a porn scene.
Like, you don’t even have to be great. Just a little enthusiasm goes a long way but if you act like you’re clocking in for work let’s just forget about it.
Maybe I am not the person you are aiming this question at. I love blowjobs… Like I really love them.
BUT…
They are absolutely not the main event for me. They are foreplay, or an appetizer. I have received a lot of blow jobs from a lot of people, men and women. Virgins, porn stars and everything in between. I even received a blowjob from a guy who had literally just won an AVN award for best blowjob scene.
And I just don’t really cum from them. I mean I have a handful of times, but generally it doesn’t matter who it is, how good they are, it’s just not going to happen.
The one thing I will say though, is a good blowjob can be really relaxing.
Usually she feels bad because I never reach the top of the mountain via bj. Which in turn makes me feel bad. Iād rather just go down on her and move onto the sex.
They’re boring. All I do is sit there and watch while she sucks my dick. I don’t find enjoyment in doing nothing. I much prefer active sex acts than passive ones.
Enthusiasm is what matters, any time ive gotten one from someone acting like it was a chore it was just a guilty feeling of not wanting to pressure someone who isnt into and all in all just a massive turn off. Id imagine if I had never been with a women who was more then happy to reciprocate on that front it would be easy to just assume its not the act and not the person I’m doing it with that is the problem.
Like the same is true about anything in the bedroom really, but bjs specfically feel alot worse if they have the same disengaged look as when working a menial job or doing chores.*3/39
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While I do enjoy them, I feel a little bit guilty that we are doing something only I really enjoy
Too gay.
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Unfortunately I have a death grip, so itās pointless. But itās not that I donāt want one
I donāt like them if itās from someone I care about because it feels weird. I think the way that act is used as an insult has made me not want to have it with people I care about. I canāt think of another reason.
They are ok, when done right itās amazing but too few girls enjoy giving them so itās a nice appetizer. I actually prefer handjobs just it takes me back to a different time
Wouldn’t say don’t like, but they just don’t feel as amazing as whatever the stereotypical hype would lead to believe. That’s just me. Other guys apparently go bananas for it. Such is life.
Edit: It doesn’t matter if its done “right” or “wrong” or who is doing it. I’ve run the whole gamut of BJs and know and appreciate the difference. I just find them kind of boring (despite the feeling) and would rather be engaged in more exciting ways.
Tastes bad.
Not sensitive enough to feel pleasure so I guess I waste some time there
Can’t get in the right headology to enjoy them, I’d rather go down on a girl, which certainly turns me on more.
They’re okay. Better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick. But they’re just kind of boring.
Feels demeaning to my partner and does not feel good.
Since they were my 1st sexual experience, they’re my favorite.
You’re probably bad at them if he doesn’t like it.
Because it takes way too long to come. Like 30 minutes plus. I’m frustrated, the girl is frustrated and has swollen bleeding lips. It’s just not forceful enough. I need to be pounding away in order to come.
Teeth for real. They could bite it right off
I mean, everyone gets to decide for themselves what they identify as, but come on, if you enjoy giving blowjobs, youāre at least bi-curious
Hurts my jaw.
Thereās that old car analogy about sex:
Pussy is like a luxury sedan – always warm, soft, and comfortable, and almost guaranteed to get you where you need to go
Anal is like a 1998 jeep wrangler – takes a lot of maintenance, is definitely not for everyone, and needs dedicated prep-work and clean up, but can be really fucking fun to ride it around a dirt road getting all filthy
Blowjobs are like a top of the range hypercar – in the hands of a pro it can do things you wouldnāt believe, but most people have no idea how to handle it
I don’t want to pretend it feels good and really don’t have the energy to coach you
Itās not like I HATE all about blowjobs. I just find a handjob with some lip and tongue potentially much more affectionate and delicate. There can be more variation and contact. I donāt mind the sucking my dick head/tip,which can be very sexy, but I really donāt like my dick deep in anybodyās throat, which both feels rough and uncomfortable for me (no teeth, please!) and for the giver. The whole gagging thing just feels like re-enacting a porn scene.
I used to be indifferent until I dated someone skilled and enthusiastic.
Hurt my throat
What does this have to do with straight man vs. whatever? Please explain.
The idea of cumming in someone’s mouth, is gross enough to me that I can’t enjoy it.Ā
I like pussy.
A lot of things donāt gross me out, but Saliva is one of them.
Not the only reason why I donāt like reviving a BJ, but the main reason.
Not having my shi bitten off
I don’t mind them, and they feel good, but I can’t climax via one.
Hurts my jaw
My husband doesn’t like them because he prefers a much firmer touch than a mouth can perform.
Most women are just bad at them. Terrible.
Like, you don’t even have to be great. Just a little enthusiasm goes a long way but if you act like you’re clocking in for work let’s just forget about it.
But then there’s that 1/100
I sorta like em, but I’d rather nutt elsewhere šāā¬.
Maybe I am not the person you are aiming this question at. I love blowjobs… Like I really love them.
BUT…
They are absolutely not the main event for me. They are foreplay, or an appetizer. I have received a lot of blow jobs from a lot of people, men and women. Virgins, porn stars and everything in between. I even received a blowjob from a guy who had literally just won an AVN award for best blowjob scene.
And I just don’t really cum from them. I mean I have a handful of times, but generally it doesn’t matter who it is, how good they are, it’s just not going to happen.
The one thing I will say though, is a good blowjob can be really relaxing.
I like to be physically active during sex, blow jobs are nice for foreplay, but difficult for me to get too excited about.
I never really like when until I met my gf. You guys just aren’t getting sucked by a good mouth
Usually she feels bad because I never reach the top of the mountain via bj. Which in turn makes me feel bad. Iād rather just go down on her and move onto the sex.
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They’re boring. All I do is sit there and watch while she sucks my dick. I don’t find enjoyment in doing nothing. I much prefer active sex acts than passive ones.
Enthusiasm is what matters, any time ive gotten one from someone acting like it was a chore it was just a guilty feeling of not wanting to pressure someone who isnt into and all in all just a massive turn off. Id imagine if I had never been with a women who was more then happy to reciprocate on that front it would be easy to just assume its not the act and not the person I’m doing it with that is the problem.
Like the same is true about anything in the bedroom really, but bjs specfically feel alot worse if they have the same disengaged look as when working a menial job or doing chores.*3/39
Teeth.
Bad experience
Women are bad at it.
Because they suck
There are guys that donāt like head??? š³
I feel bad expecting a girl to put something as weird looking as a dick in her mouth
I used to hate getting blow jobs from my ex. Once I had a chick who knew her way around, I started loving them.
I have so many insecurities that it becomes a Sisyphean exercise in patience and ain’t nobody got time for that.
Too much teeth and have gotten a hickey down there. Just hurts
Im very enthusiastic about giving head, if im not meant with at least half of that enthusiasm then im not interested.
Always thought they were just āmehā until I found a girl who was extremely good at it and very enthusiastic.
It changed everything, lol.
Wait, there are actually people like that? Wow.
Surely thereās no such men!?
Same reason I hate taking pictures. I never know what to do with my hands āļø
If you dont enjoy blowjobs then you’ve been with the wrong women.
It turns me on more going down on women or pleasuring them overall.
Either receiving them isn’t my thing or I’ve yet to find a woman with those oral skills lol. It’s whatever for me.
If she is just okay, Iām self conscience if she is getting tired and I over think. So I prefer just to turn her on and that gets me going.
Some girls are so good at, and it catches me off guard and Iām done for.