Straight men who don’t like blowjobs, why!?

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Do you think bjs are overrated? Bad experiences? Fear of any kind? (Teeth etc)

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  1. OjTheK1D Avatar

    I don’t think there are any šŸ˜…

  2. DoeCommaJohn Avatar

    While I do enjoy them, I feel a little bit guilty that we are doing something only I really enjoy

  3. walrusdog32 Avatar

    Unfortunately I have a death grip, so it’s pointless. But it’s not that I don’t want one

  4. YourDrunkUncl_ Avatar

    I don’t like them if it’s from someone I care about because it feels weird. I think the way that act is used as an insult has made me not want to have it with people I care about. I can’t think of another reason.

  5. Neither_Adagio1668 Avatar

    They are ok, when done right it’s amazing but too few girls enjoy giving them so it’s a nice appetizer. I actually prefer handjobs just it takes me back to a different time

  6. duketogo0138 Avatar

    Wouldn’t say don’t like, but they just don’t feel as amazing as whatever the stereotypical hype would lead to believe. That’s just me. Other guys apparently go bananas for it. Such is life.

    Edit: It doesn’t matter if its done “right” or “wrong” or who is doing it. I’ve run the whole gamut of BJs and know and appreciate the difference. I just find them kind of boring (despite the feeling) and would rather be engaged in more exciting ways.

  7. Otherwise-Opposite28 Avatar

    Not sensitive enough to feel pleasure so I guess I waste some time there

  8. Sergeant_Fred_Colon Avatar

    Can’t get in the right headology to enjoy them, I’d rather go down on a girl, which certainly turns me on more.

  9. PaulsRedditUsername Avatar

    They’re okay. Better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick. But they’re just kind of boring.

  10. xX7heGuyXx Avatar

    Feels demeaning to my partner and does not feel good.

  11. leftwinga16 Avatar

    Since they were my 1st sexual experience, they’re my favorite.

  12. Acebladewing Avatar

    You’re probably bad at them if he doesn’t like it.

  13. Rootdown4594 Avatar

    Because it takes way too long to come. Like 30 minutes plus. I’m frustrated, the girl is frustrated and has swollen bleeding lips. It’s just not forceful enough. I need to be pounding away in order to come.

  14. AttentionRoyal2276 Avatar

    Teeth for real. They could bite it right off

  15. AccomplishedRow6685 Avatar

    I mean, everyone gets to decide for themselves what they identify as, but come on, if you enjoy giving blowjobs, you’re at least bi-curious

  16. KissMyAlien Avatar
  17. likealocal14 Avatar

    There’s that old car analogy about sex:

    Pussy is like a luxury sedan – always warm, soft, and comfortable, and almost guaranteed to get you where you need to go

    Anal is like a 1998 jeep wrangler – takes a lot of maintenance, is definitely not for everyone, and needs dedicated prep-work and clean up, but can be really fucking fun to ride it around a dirt road getting all filthy

    Blowjobs are like a top of the range hypercar – in the hands of a pro it can do things you wouldn’t believe, but most people have no idea how to handle it

  18. BrowniesNCheese Avatar

    I don’t want to pretend it feels good and really don’t have the energy to coach you

  19. MorningMindBurp Avatar

    It’s not like I HATE all about blowjobs. I just find a handjob with some lip and tongue potentially much more affectionate and delicate. There can be more variation and contact. I don’t mind the sucking my dick head/tip,which can be very sexy, but I really don’t like my dick deep in anybody’s throat, which both feels rough and uncomfortable for me (no teeth, please!) and for the giver. The whole gagging thing just feels like re-enacting a porn scene.

  20. Olorin_TheMaia Avatar

    I used to be indifferent until I dated someone skilled and enthusiastic.

  21. squirrelyme Avatar

    What does this have to do with straight man vs. whatever? Please explain.

  22. TooBusySaltMining Avatar

    The idea of cumming in someone’s mouth, is gross enough to me that I can’t enjoy it.Ā 

  23. ROtis42069 Avatar

    I like pussy.

  24. InsertUsername28302 Avatar

    A lot of things don’t gross me out, but Saliva is one of them.
    Not the only reason why I don’t like reviving a BJ, but the main reason.

  25. therehasbeen_amurder Avatar

    Not having my shi bitten off

  26. SoSoDave Avatar

    I don’t mind them, and they feel good, but I can’t climax via one.

  27. Jennyelf Avatar

    My husband doesn’t like them because he prefers a much firmer touch than a mouth can perform.

  28. zachary_mp3 Avatar

    Most women are just bad at them. Terrible.

    Like, you don’t even have to be great. Just a little enthusiasm goes a long way but if you act like you’re clocking in for work let’s just forget about it.

    But then there’s that 1/100

  29. heyknauw Avatar

    I sorta like em, but I’d rather nutt elsewhere šŸˆā€ā¬›.

  30. gigashadowwolf Avatar

    Maybe I am not the person you are aiming this question at. I love blowjobs… Like I really love them.

    BUT…

    They are absolutely not the main event for me. They are foreplay, or an appetizer. I have received a lot of blow jobs from a lot of people, men and women. Virgins, porn stars and everything in between. I even received a blowjob from a guy who had literally just won an AVN award for best blowjob scene.

    And I just don’t really cum from them. I mean I have a handful of times, but generally it doesn’t matter who it is, how good they are, it’s just not going to happen.

    The one thing I will say though, is a good blowjob can be really relaxing.

  31. dram3 Avatar

    I like to be physically active during sex, blow jobs are nice for foreplay, but difficult for me to get too excited about.

  32. ArisenBahamut Avatar

    I never really like when until I met my gf. You guys just aren’t getting sucked by a good mouth

  33. Ohiosvery_own Avatar

    Usually she feels bad because I never reach the top of the mountain via bj. Which in turn makes me feel bad. I’d rather just go down on her and move onto the sex.

    SoMuchSadness

  34. Vt420KeyboardError4 Avatar

    They’re boring. All I do is sit there and watch while she sucks my dick. I don’t find enjoyment in doing nothing. I much prefer active sex acts than passive ones.

  35. Thin-Support2580 Avatar

    Enthusiasm is what matters, any time ive gotten one from someone acting like it was a chore it was just a guilty feeling of not wanting to pressure someone who isnt into and all in all just a massive turn off. Id imagine if I had never been with a women who was more then happy to reciprocate on that front it would be easy to just assume its not the act and not the person I’m doing it with that is the problem.

    Like the same is true about anything in the bedroom really, but bjs specfically feel alot worse if they have the same disengaged look as when working a menial job or doing chores.*3/39

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  37. RowRowRowsYourBoat Avatar

    Women are bad at it.

  38. Fattest_loser Avatar

    Because they suck

  39. HellsingQueen Avatar

    There are guys that don’t like head??? 😳

  40. MintyFreshBreathYo Avatar

    I feel bad expecting a girl to put something as weird looking as a dick in her mouth

  41. thebigstupid2 Avatar

    I used to hate getting blow jobs from my ex. Once I had a chick who knew her way around, I started loving them.

  42. CommanderGumball Avatar

    I have so many insecurities that it becomes a Sisyphean exercise in patience and ain’t nobody got time for that.

  43. Poverty_welder Avatar

    Too much teeth and have gotten a hickey down there. Just hurts

  44. i_like_2_travel Avatar

    Im very enthusiastic about giving head, if im not meant with at least half of that enthusiasm then im not interested.

  45. AlsoARobot Avatar

    Always thought they were just ā€œmehā€ until I found a girl who was extremely good at it and very enthusiastic.

    It changed everything, lol.

  46. clara_latte Avatar

    Wait, there are actually people like that? Wow.

  47. Gman777 Avatar

    Surely there’s no such men!?

  48. rootheday21 Avatar

    Same reason I hate taking pictures. I never know what to do with my hands āœ‹ļø

  49. Fellattio_Nelson Avatar

    If you dont enjoy blowjobs then you’ve been with the wrong women.

  50. St0ryt3ll3r Avatar

    It turns me on more going down on women or pleasuring them overall.

    Either receiving them isn’t my thing or I’ve yet to find a woman with those oral skills lol. It’s whatever for me.

  51. Fresh_Profit3000 Avatar

    If she is just okay, I’m self conscience if she is getting tired and I over think. So I prefer just to turn her on and that gets me going.

    Some girls are so good at, and it catches me off guard and I’m done for.