Has anyone ever made you cum just with words? How was that possible?

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I’ve always been curious about how strong words and voice can be in a sexual context. I’ve heard people say it happened to them, and it sounds fascinating. I wonder how that actually works — was it tone, the words themselves, or your mental state at the moment?

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  1. Tall-Performer2500 Avatar

    Only When she says “let’s go get wings”.

  2. whstlngisnvrenf Avatar

    Yeah… it was a spelling bee. She whispered “onomatopoeia” and I haven’t been the same since.

  3. Skydude252 Avatar

    I can’t imagine it being possible for me. Getting aroused by words, certainly, but all the way to completion? I find that hard to imagine for anyone.

  4. noneofyouaresafe Avatar

    Omelette du fromage

    Works every time.

  5. PuzzleheadedRoyal559 Avatar

    Yes. She said some beautifully erotic stuff over the phone. Hands were nowhere near. It was the words and tone I think.

  6. lavenk7 Avatar

    ASMR erotic storytelling

  7. No-Kaleidoscope5914 Avatar

    It’s cheating a bit but a stripper in El Paso was only talking dirty to me. No dance or anything just sensual whispers in the left ear. I think about her often

  8. engan0 Avatar

    I once had a gf that could will herself to orgasm. No touching involved. She would just concentrate for a bit and then climax.

  9. shellofbiomatter Avatar

    That’s impossible. Words are barely even arousing, nowhere near strong enough to get off. Only direct physical stimulus can do that.

  10. Outside_Community577 Avatar

    if you haven’t wanked one off for 30years, trees turn you on, then yes

  11. bp7492 Avatar

    By saying

    supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

  12. SouroDot Avatar
  13. Oreomilk4444 Avatar

    Not sure if this counts but the ability is definitely there to have an orgasm from hypnosis just using words

  14. gwydion_black Avatar

    There are audio hypnosis tracks floating around online that serve this express purpose.

    It is essentially doing kegels to achieve orgasm.

  15. Lunar_Gato Avatar

    It’s possible in the same way achieving orgasm in a wet dream is. You trick your mind enough to think it’s really happening and boom goes the dynamite

  16. Etticos Avatar

    Sorcery. Cast word of power “instant ejaculate” on your target.

  17. MilieMeal Avatar

    Everything going over the OP’s head, it makes sense that they can’t get off to verbal stimulation…

    Neither have I but ASMR isn’t my thing.

    Once did to an exchange of recordings but I did most of the work…

  18. HooyahDangerous Avatar

    Now I’m curious if I could make it happen… I’ve always been told I have a sexy voice.

  19. XtremeLover666 Avatar

    I can nut if you talk long enough in a mommy sweet way.

    Yes many issues

  20. PhoenixApok Avatar

    Maybe not just words but it certainly helped.

    I was making out with my girlfriend while another friend of mine was going down on me. My girlfriend stopped kissing me to bite my ear and whisper “Cum in her mouth.”

    Sent me right over the edge.

  21. cutesthoneybunny Avatar

    Yes.
    I’ve come with my husband more than a couple times, during after care, I believe it happens because of how safe I feel with him.

  22. gigashadowwolf Avatar

    I have personally never been able to. I have to my knowledge only came once without direct physical stimulation of my genitals, and that was a singular wet dream I had when I was just entering puberty. Even then, I may have been self stimulating in my sleep without realizing it.

    That said, I have known women who absolutely could orgasm from words alone. I had an ex that was capable of this for example. She had to be really riled up first obviously, but she was able to orgasm just from me telling her to “cum for me”.

    It was insanely hot.

    She also was able to cum sometimes by reading erotica without physical stimulation.

  23. imtheroth Avatar

    Hasn’t happened to me, but I’ve made more than one woman orgasm from just my voice and the right words.

  24. DerekJ4Lyfe Avatar

    Some people watch/read wayyyyyyy too much porn lol

  25. IamREBELoe Avatar

    Does sign language count?

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  26. CorinthGrey Avatar

    Yes, actually. I’m biologically F, so idk if dick-havers can experience it the same, but my dom at the time (online) taught me to clench my pelvic muscles to a rhythm he established. He’d tell me “clench”..”clench..”slow and hard, now” or “fast and short”, and he was able to get me to a few small orgasms. …does that count, actually?

  27. TheRadiumGirl Avatar

    All the time. It’s their words, tone of voice, our relationship, my mental state and kegels. Everything has to line up perfectly.

  28. ella86uk Avatar

    Yes, it can be done and is used in kink and bdsm. There is an approach called conditioning, and it takes time and a lot of practice for this to happen. I know a person, though, that when separating from her partner, it took therapy to undo it she could orgasm without that word. I myself have never tired it.

  29. vscode-gal Avatar

    not sure if this counts but my bf has come just from eating me out. no other touching was involved

  30. ExcellentRip1100 Avatar

    Love seeing OP getting dunked on in the comments. This post reeks of “I’ll post this and then maybe somebody will DM me!!”

    What’s happened to this sub, man

  31. TreatYourselfBoo Avatar

    Not words, but once I was so horny (had been going through a bit of a dry spell) I came when I peed. It was a wild experience, been chasing that high ever since.

  32. CagedCuck44 Avatar

    I know most answers are memes. But yes. My wife and I are very kinky and she has made me ejaculate just from talking to me. Lol.

  33. ClassicNara Avatar

    One time, we were in the middle of doing it and I wasn’t even close. She then started moaning saying she was cumming, and then boom. Those were like the magic words in that tone and it got me! Feel bad about it still haha

  34. WAR-melon Avatar

    There was this one hands-free erotic audio that did the job. It was interesting and really hot.

  35. Various_Pen_2956 Avatar

    My boyfriend can make me cum quite easily with just words, including by just telling me to cum. But our dynamic is D/s, so that factors into it quite a bit.

  36. mr_jinxxx Avatar

    Nope never happened

  37. wajhoongra Avatar

    I’ve had many many sessions with women just texting and it’s always ended up mutually beneficial to both … The use of words, kinkiness of imagination and knowing that another person is getting ruined on the same way you are is soooo sooo yummy 🥵

  38. yungneurotic Avatar

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    creme fraicheeee

  39. AE_Phoenix Avatar

    I’d just finished doing the deed with my girlfriend. I tend to be quite delicate with her afterwards and make sure she’s okay, etc. This time I just looked her dead in the eyes and told her she’d been a good girl. She… seemed to like it XD

  40. goodolewhasisname Avatar

    There was a lady I read about who orgasmed every time she sneezed. She also sneezed every time she looked at the sun.

  41. Cats_Are_Aliens_ Avatar

    I jizzed my pants!

  42. AFantasticClue Avatar

    Yeah. I listen to audio erotica sometimes. I think the actual voice helps sometimes, but it’s actually mostly a mix of enthusiasm and scenario. It’s like hypnosis, I have to be in the mood to be to be immersed.