I was reading a sextortion case and in the chatlogs, the extorter says they are going to send the nude pictures to the victim’s employer. Why would they care? Is that fireable to take pictures of yourself?
I was reading a sextortion case and in the chatlogs, the extorter says they are going to send the nude pictures to the victim’s employer. Why would they care? Is that fireable to take pictures of yourself?
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I think it’s reasonable to not want your coworkers or employers to know what you look like underneath your work clothes.
It’s just embarrassing
It can also make you be viewed in a different way
We live in a culture of puritan logic where most everyone has sex but we’re not allowed to acknowledge that in our professional lives as its “inappropriate”.
Ideally cases like this wouldnt matter, but people will see you differently due to their own preconcieved notions about sex and other peoples lives, leading to a situation where your boss fires you for things you did in private with no intention of being seen.
No it’s more about the embarrassment
Wouldn’t work on me….
My boss is my hubby right now
But really i would care i wouldn’t pay to prevent the embarrassment id just warn my work what was being sent… Hey they wanna look i cant stop it and dont care
I think it’s not so much that your employer would care as that is just embarrassing/ humiliating regardless. Same goes for much tamer scenarios: you trip over nothing and fall down in the grocery store, probably nobody around you cares at all, but your face might still turn red.
My boss would likely be more pissed that I got myself into that kind of situation then anything else. That would likely be after he tears the person that sends them to him a new ass hole. He’s a really nice guy, but one of those that is pretty much never mad and you just know if something manages to piss him off you need to be running fast.
Because your actions [having nudes & letting untrustworthy persons have possession of them] embarrasses the company you work for. Normally this is grounds for termination. If the job you have is not a big deal [McDonald’s fry cook, etcetera] who cares if you lose it. But if you have a better job with good compensation then it is time to worry.
High dollar jobs, political jobs, etcetera where reputation matters will suffer more when their nudes are sent to bosses, clients, etcetera.
Some jobs require you to have an image and represent the company/workplace, and it would supposedly tarnish their reputation if it got out that an employee linked to them had nudes leaked
Person with my nudes: Do what I want or I’m going to send your nudes to your boss.
Me: please tell them I said I’m sorry they had to see that.
It’s not done to upset the employer. It’s done to threaten the victim because most people would not want the people they work with to see them naked or involved in a sex act. Some employers wouldn’t act professionally, and other might dismiss the victim because they don’t want personal dramas impacting the workplace.
Depending on the field and who your boss is as a person you can certainly get fired if your boss decides that your place of employment’s image as squeaky clean and professional is too important to risk keeping someone on staff who has naked photos floating around. For example, teachers and nurses have been fired for reasons ranging from “used to have an OnlyFans” to “posted a picture of her at the beach in which she was wearing a bikini.”
It’s a stupid tactic that relies on your embarrassment. I had to pull text messages off phones for a court case, dude broke up with his wife, threatened and eventually went through with texting her mother photos of her at a swingers party 2-3 guys deep asking what she thought of her princess now.. fucking douchebag.
My boss would just laugh at me.
I’m ugly when clothes on too, no need to be embarrassed.
I’m manual labor blue collar. As long as I don’t come to work naked nor fuck when on clock I don’t think my employer could care less.
I have posted my nude and porn photos to internet. So there is nothing to leak. But many people seem to consider nudity and fucking as private. And they only share them with some people. But then some of those people are not trustful. I guess it’s like friend telling your secret to your boss? So I guess even the employer wouldn’t care, some people do care themselves.