I’ve never dated a momma’s boy but I have dated this.
It’s essentially the same shit as the “My son is perfect and no woman is good enough for him” schtick with “Boy Moms” or just mothers who blatantly prefer their sons over their daughters.
Except its with a sister. Super weird shit. Usually these sisters have poor relationship with men in their own love life or with their father, and they project this need of intimacy onto their brother.
Dating a man who has a sister like this is fucking weird and creepy, and downright awful/abusive.
They’re incredible hostile and venomous towards women dating their brother, and to be quite frank, it reaches uncomfortable territory. They don’t want anyone to date their brother.
Additionally, they’re the first to defend their brother if he has any allegations of rape or sexual assault towards women and/or girls. These women continuously coddle and enable bad behaviour from these men. They’re literally helping raise monsters.
And the way they act around their brother’s is downright disgusting? Do you have a crush on this your sibling? Do you want to fuck your brother or something? Smh.
There is an Australian influencer who is currently being ‘cancelled’ for this behaviour, where she defended her brother of rape allegations, despite already being a convicted rapist in a completely different case. It recently came out that this convicted rapist brother would take her OF content too.
It just made me think of the last relationship I had in which it had an eerily similar relationship with its sister. Yuck Yuck Yuck!
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This is super common in religious and/or conservative communities. It’s ingrained in them that your brother is the only man you will always be able to count on to take care of you long after your dad passes. Your dad will pass 20+ before you do, your husband can run around and leave you, but your brother will live about as long you and is tied to you by blood. It’s like their only lifeline in a patriarchal power structure.