So my husband 30 & I 32, have been married for 4 years.
We don’t have a child together, but I have a kid with my ex, but it wasn’t a bed of roses.
I didn’t have a baby shower, didn’t have any maternity photos, and I was forced to stay home most of the time.
I left my ex, and I got married and was so excited to have a baby with my husband, I was looking forward to being able to have those things that I didn’t have with my 1st.
But it wasn’t just happening.
So he got a sperm analysis, and it wasn’t good news.
We don’t have the money for treatment, so after the news.. we’ve become so numb to it. We don’t talk about it.
I low-key feel so devastated that I won’t be able to have those things and experience pregnancy with my husband.
He moves like he has no faith.
It’s very hurtful, but I’m just here managing and taking one day at a time.
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Don’t loose all hope! They is always a chance you could. Maybe try bring it up to your husband again and see how he is feeling about it. Is he ready for a baby of his own?
It’s just… heartbreak, to see your dream slipping away. The numbness and devastation? They’re really understandable. But don’t despair, there is hope through affordable fertility treatments from clinics. Your love will only grow stronger as you face this together.