Earlier today my (F26) girlfriend (F28) mentioned posting about a very specific topic on Reddit. I’ve been curious about what she does on here for a while (mainly wondering if she ever posts about our relationship), and I’ve unsuccessfully tried to find her profile a few times. I searched for a couple key words, filtered by time, and there it was. I clicked on her profile and what I found was shocking, to say the least. There were so many pictures of her in lingerie I haven’t even seen before, right here in our bedroom. Judging by the post titles and pictures it was pretty obvious she was selling this content to paying customers.
I couldn’t stop scrolling through her posts and reading the comments. A lot of the comments were kind of gross, but to be honest, the whole thing really turned me on. It was super hot to see her at her most confident and desired by so many people. On the other hand, I am a little hurt she was doing this stuff behind my back.
I haven’t confronted her yet and I don’t know if I should. Part of me just wants to keep lurking and secretly touching myself to her pictures but I know how fucked up and unhealthy that is.
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Hmm awkward. Does she need the money?
What if you tell her and then she sends you a bill?
She’s a sex worker, and you need to be honest about how you feel. How will this impact you both on your goals and dreams. How will you feel if you know anyone who is using her content.
Really, just be honest. The hard part is regaining trust after she’s been lying to you. “What else could she be lying about?” Is a common next thought. For a good relationship, you both need to communicate and figure out what you’re comfortable with.
To put it lightly, leave her YESTERDAY.