In terms of mental, financial or/and interpersonal well-being — Do you have experiences on that matter? Maybe not personally, but from someone of your surrounding?
In terms of mental, financial or/and interpersonal well-being — Do you have experiences on that matter? Maybe not personally, but from someone of your surrounding?
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Completely irrelevant
Such a weird take.
Success has nothing to do if you’re fucking or not.
I’ll throw some 2 cents in. I had a relationship of 1.5 years over the end of high school and very beginning of college. I do think it made other relationships throughout that early part of my life much easier. There is simply less pressure when you have “been there before”. That said it also taught me some lazy habits in relationships that I had to correct as I got older.
I’m glad I didn’t wait any longer, but I’m glad I didn’t start any sooner. If I’d ended up having a kid when I was still in my teens, my life would have been just another tale of a poverty-stricken dumpster fire. But luckily I waited until my prefrontal cortex was developed enough to understand consequences, and my 20’s were awesome, and safe, with no risks taken or allowed.
Like losing their virginity later? I didn’t lose mine until 25 and honestly I’m so glad. I wanted different things now compared to then, plus I definitely would have gotten someone pregnant if I was younger.
As for sex = better life I highly doubt losing your virginity would instantly make you better. It’s just a societal stepping stone, a bad person would still be bad after having done IMO.
Your post history is obsessed with porn stars and getting girlfriends. Maybe if you stop viewing women as an object you can obtain, and start treating them like autonomous, whole people you might make some progress. If all you’re looking for is a warm spot to put your dick there’s plenty of ways you can accomplish that.
I don’t think it’s the sex that’s important. I do wish I had actually dated as a teenager..I think dating, being bad at it, being broke up with, earning to deal with other personalities intimately, etc is important.
Or maybe not lol. Idk. All I know is I probably could have avoided some of the relationship mistakes I made in my 20s if I had had the experience and knowledge to identify a bad situation when I was in one
this reads as someone who is trying to justify preventing their kids from dating until a certain age, honestly the action itself isn’t going to be life changing either way, but the social skills lost from never dating might be. It’s not really a good position to say, both sides can have deep consequences so I just say live your life the way it happens and just be safe either way.
Someone is not more or less successful depending on the amount of sex they have. I don’t know told you that, but they are dead wrong lol.