My gf (23f) and I (25m) have been together for three years. She recently told me that a year ago she went to another guy’s house to smoke weed. On the same day, she lied to me that she was home. She says nothing in appropriate happened, but I am having a hard time believing her story. She told me because she thought that I was tracking her. I did not know about this nor did I have a tracker on her. I’m honestly surprised and considers this unfaithful and cheating behavior. I want to see different thoughts on this.
Tl;dr – my gf went to another guys house and lied to me that she was home.
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Women love to trickle truth, so don’t take her word at face value.
Run. She definitely cheated on you or else she wouldn’t have felt the need to lie and she’s hoping that the time that has passed will make you less likely to scrutinize her story. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Your girlfriend cheated on you. Do you trust your girlfriend? She will never tell the truth and will manipulate you. Break up.
Lying about her location and lying in general is a bit troubling for your relationship.
Also: I’m not much of a smoker but is getting high with another dude 1 on 1 is not exactly a good look?
Sounds like your girl is looking to spread her wings and fly.
She had sex for drugs.