Per example, if she isn’t mean or bitxhy to you, but you witness her being a mean and bitchy to some other girls, like talking sh*t about them, laughing at them, mocking them being rude and having an attitude for no reasons etc… Not every girls though, just some of them.
As a man, does it bother you and would you still date her? (If you found out after being in a relationship with her)
*if she doesnt do that, WOULD THAT bother you?
But she is sweet to you
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I feel like everyones bitchy to somebody at some point of their lives
I dont have a gf
I kinda think its weird how im getting this question on my home page tbh
I fucked with enough mean girls in high school to know I never want that shit in my life.
Be nice to people.
I’d keep wondering when she’d start in with me.
The term “pick-me” girls is wildly overused at this point, but I will warn you: if your girlfriend puts her “friends” or other women down to make herself feel better, she will do the same to you in time.
she probably is sweet to the people shes mocking too. why wouldnt it be the same with me?
also i just cant stand people beeing assholes for no reason and such behavior does reflect badly on my character and/or judgement, even if i would be exempt
Why would you want to be with someone who is two-faced and rude like that to others? Especially for no reason. She sounds like one of those mean high school girls that never grew out of it. How long til she stops being sweet and does it to you? (the answer is not long) Girls like that are only nice if they think they can get something from you, and that’s partially why they’re mean to people who they don’t think can offer anything or are beneath them
Not to be all reddit about it, but get outta this relationship bro. It won’t get better
Being mean to other people for no reason is an ugly trait for anyone. If it was my girlfriend it would turn me off too the point that i wouldn’t want to be with her anymore and if it was a guy friend i wouldn’t want to be around him anymore.
yes, girls that shit on other girls are a problem, they usually have no girlfriends and are mean. usually everyone but the BF can spot this right off the bat
It should bother you guys if it doesn’t. What you described sounds like a bully to me. Doesn’t sound sweet at all.
My ex turned into the fakest person is ever met, after we were married. She was everyones friend to their face, but as soon as we were alone, holy crap. I just got good at shutting it down right away and she almost stopped.
It does bother me, how you treat others, especially strangers.
Ya it would bother me. Because she might start an actual fight and I’d get dragged in and a bunch of us would get battered and maybe killed or jailed.
I had a girlfriend that was mean to my long term female friends. It turned out everything she said about them was projection.