How can some people have sex multiple times a day?

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Like, yes a high sex drive, but doesn’t it get exhausting or don’t you get sore?

Genuinely curious!

Comments

  1. yekedero Avatar

    You take a break. Or if your dick doesn’t work you take Sildenafil.

  2. Glittering_Deer2527 Avatar

    I don’t know, but I’d like to find out.

  3. casione777 Avatar

    Horniness/high sex drive

  4. stoned_ileso Avatar

    The same way they do it only once

  5. poopityscoopoop Avatar

    I used to do it literally 5-10 times a day when I first met my partner. Would end up w me so sore id have to use ice down there or take baths lol

  6. eatmyshortoptions Avatar

    Yes it’s exhausting but you play off each other and when either wants it it’s hard to tell the other person no and then that passionate feeling reignites and round two begins etc. It really starts to hurt though after so many times. For both of us. She is raw by the end of it and I’ve ejaculated so many times the strain is killing my wang. 🙏

  7. Legal_Delay_7264 Avatar

    It just kind of comes up

  8. DotCottonCandy Avatar

    It can be exhausting, but that’s part of the fun. Collapsing together in a tired and sweaty mess at the end.

    My partner and I don’t tend to notice we’re sore until the day after. When we’ve had a lot of sex, the next day my muscles all hurt from tensing so much and my partner says his dick no longer works. Fun times.

  9. lan0028456 Avatar

    Idk, I can’t even get one!

  10. beowulf1438 Avatar

    Twice a Day if only it’s one in the morning and one in the night with a nap in between

  11. strawberryzephyr_ Avatar

    I only see my significant other at certain times of the month due to how far apart we live from each other across the city sooo when we do see each other we’re obviously off work and take advantage of the time. We’re also really attracted to each other lol

  12. Chirsbom Avatar

    Start with having an available partner around.

  13. GeekDz21 Avatar

    Abstinence for a couple of days, its tough, but that’s what works for me

  14. bazanambo Avatar

    Miss those days

  15. Julia-Lumie Avatar

    It’s the pleasure that’s so powerful, and when you’re with the right person,too.
    The pain and fatigue come one after another, but the pleasure is stronger than that

  16. myfootsmells Avatar

    You just do? I don’t understand the question?

  17. ManVsBugs Avatar

    Its all about chemistry and stamina, when youre with someone who just clicks with you, the energy just keeps flowing. Plus, hydration and snacks help!

    Also Its not just physical, mental arousal plays a huge role. If youre both constantly turned on by each other, its way easier to keep going.

  18. RickHard0 Avatar

    There are a lot of time in a day. If you rest a little bit, is not that hard (pun intended) to do it, especially if you’re young. With the way that remote work is normalized is even easier to have this, if your SO is under the same way of work

  19. CrustyT-shirt Avatar

    I’m just really horny all the time

  20. OneStatement0 Avatar

    Mate, early relationship in your 20’s you hit that thing 3 or 4 times a day no sweat.

  21. Nymrael Avatar

    You can exercise 2 or 3 times a day for a few minutes each time but rarely you run a marathon more than once a day. Some people prefer to work out only once a day and some people prefer to work out more times per day.

    On the other hand, there are some people who enjoy to run multiple marathons. Usually these are professionals.

    Older people, usually, do not work out more than once a day or even more than once per week. On the other hand, younger people work out all day!

    So, yeah… it’s a personal preference combined with age.

  22. Jojo-R-balls Avatar

    Lots of water during the week. A lot of water.

    Both parters working on pleasing eachother.

    Breaks.

    Accepting that you will be disgusting afterwards.

    When it comes to being exhausted, try and gimish your partner and watch some shitty TV till your both ready.

  23. jojojajahihi Avatar

    Just wait 30 min and you are fit again.

  24. Fiona512 Avatar

    I have no idea. That would be too much for me.

  25. Sagelegend Avatar

    You have the sex. You have a rest. When not tired, you have the sex again.

  26. Otherwise-Remove4681 Avatar

    It’s not only non-stop jackhammering. And dont go hardest the first time.

  27. Background-Event-558 Avatar

    Some of us got that dawg in us

  28. rockyricknroll Avatar

    Your limits aren’t everyone’s boundaries.

  29. Dramatic-Branch-2616 Avatar

    It just kinda happeneds. It is exhausting sometimes tho

  30. Proof_Drummer8802 Avatar

    We can go for hours 😆 but not every day. My husband and I travel a lot for work so after I don’t see him for 7-10 days you’d better give us 6 hours to enjoy ourselves 😂

  31. SpaceViolet Avatar

    Stimulants. Weed. GHB, anabolic steroids, TRT, etc.

    5 minute mile, 25 pullups. 225 bench for 30 reps, wholesome meals every day (steak, asparagus and potatoes, etc.), 8-9 hours of sleep every night, under 40 years of age.

  32. Original1Thor Avatar

    Being healthy is a good start. Hydration

  33. Zenai10 Avatar

    I have to swap positions if we do that. My knees can’t take being on top twice. And I think they might snap off if i did it 3 times. Other than that, I know I’m not sore but she is sore too sore after too to even touch her tummy 😛

  34. MaineHippo83 Avatar

    A day? in my early 20’s if i met a new girl we might stay up and fuck multiple times that night. It’s the excitement of someone new, with a little recharge time it can be pretty easy.

  35. Late_Barnacle97 Avatar

    She turns me on like crazy, and I dont like to stay off of her as long as she’s willing and kids are anywhere else

  36. Living-Ad5291 Avatar

    Be under 30 for starters …

  37. runningsimon Avatar

    They’re lucky

  38. That_Switch_1300 Avatar

    Easy.

    They simply start early. Gives plenty of opportunities to go at it again and again before the day is over. That’s how I see it, at least.

  39. attackonecchi Avatar

    You ever heard the phrase, “I go hard da the motherfuckin paint”?

  40. Kriskao Avatar

    It’s just a matter of motivation. And the younger you are the easier motivation comes.

  41. Ir0nhide81 Avatar

    When both parties work from home still.

  42. ResponsibilityFirm57 Avatar

    “Too bad that youth is wasted on the young.”

    — Mark Twain

  43. Paraoxonase Avatar

    Hydration, electrolytes and stretching.

  44. just-a-dude69 Avatar

    Sometimes, the Lil guy wants to keep going. Sometimes, he goes to sleep after one ride, depends on how tired I am or on how hoeny I am, or how horny my gf is,

  45. Cautious-Lecture-153 Avatar

    I have, and always have had a crazy high sex drive. It is a natural high for me, without a downside.

  46. holdherdown Avatar

    …with gusto?

  47. z0anthr0pe Avatar

    When first married we did it 5-6 times a day for about a year. If we didn’t it was because skin was rubbed red raw. But over the years it reduces. 20 yrs later it’s like once a month. But it’s still good.

  48. Some_Belgian_Guy Avatar

    The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised

  49. rabbi_05 Avatar

    Not if you have a sporty lifestyle. 😉

  50. Content-Baby2782 Avatar

    I wish I was having sex every day

  51. vampire_godzilla Avatar

    sometimes it’s hard, but quite pussible. it’s acquired appetite

  52. CygnusHoly Avatar

    Being young, no life crushing responsibility, both partner have above average libido

  53. johnnyjimmy4 Avatar

    Had a horney girlfriend with parental issues, and i think she wanted me to stay around.

  54. BrieflyVerbose Avatar

    You just have to wait a little between doing it a second, third, fourth (whatever time). It’s not really that difficult.

  55. often_awkward Avatar

    It’s like any other athletic activity. The more you do it, the better you get at it, and the more you can do it.

    Also it helps being in your 20s and not having children – at least I spend my experience. 😂

  56. chattywww Avatar

    I am doing it wrong? I would class myself as unfit. But I can still manage to go at least 3 would be more but havent given the chance.

  57. Opening_End2894 Avatar

    to be so sexually attracted to your partner 😁🙏🏼 it is so easy to have sex three/four times especially in the first 6-12 months of a relationship. as long as you are ridiculously attracted to them, it shouldn’t hurt till the next day⭐️⭐️⭐️

  58. CenterofChaos Avatar

    If you’re doing it often enough your body adjusts to it, sex is exercise. If you’re just having a super passionate day you might get sore after. 

  59. SaberXRita Avatar

    As a single guy, I shouldn’t be here… Fak 😭

  60. AngryButtlicker Avatar

    Because your mom won’t stop calling me unless I do….

  61. PrometheusZero Avatar

    You put it in.

    Then you take it out.

    Then you put it back in again.

  62. nintynineninjas Avatar

    I could go a few times a day quite nearly every day. 40M here.

    And that’s not counting the literal hour I could perform oral.

    Exhausting, yes. Sore, sometimes on the muscles.

    Sex is my special interest as an autistic. I’ve found a partner that seems willing and interested in that.

  63. GeologistTechnical61 Avatar

    Once y’all really like each other and reallyyyyy intune with each other. It’s easy. Just that dynamic connection.

  64. lotlotov Avatar
  65. PsychonautAlpha Avatar

    Honestly, I sleep so much better after nights where my wife and I have sex, and if it’s after multiple times, I wake up the next day with even less pain, headaches, and with more motivation. Sex is like magic, I swear.

  66. [deleted] Avatar

    For a lot of people, sex drive is tied directly into interest in their partner(s). So, I’m able to have multiple sessions or with different partners in the same day (consensual) if the vibe is right (just sure to rinse your nuts).

  67. TheMadManiac Avatar

    Pussy can definitely be sore, dick starts coughing up dust after a while

  68. SleepyMarijuanaut92 Avatar

    Sex to me is about pleasuring the opposite, that’s my pleasure. I’m not very sensitive and use that to my advantage. I can basically go all night. Fucked for 4 hours last weekend haha. You feel it the next day for sure haha.

  69. theblvckhorned Avatar

    I’m always surprised that more than once a day is considered way too much by most people. If you’re taking breaks in between and using lube I dunno how it would cause pain. Not trying to be judgemental, just genuinely interested in how this works for most people.

    OP I feel exactly like you but in the opposite direction.

  70. diMario Avatar

    When you smoke after sex, that’s a sure sign you’re overdoing it.

  71. Rustyrockets9 Avatar

    I can spare a couple minutes a day for this. It’s not that hard honestly

  72. Well_Spoken_Mute Avatar

    I feel like it’s one of three things:

    • Youth

    • Love

    • Drugs

  73. ViC_tOr42 Avatar

    Knew a couple of marathon runners, they went down like a dozen times a day at some point, so my guess is you would need to be very athletic

  74. HealthyLet257 Avatar

    Idk but I need 2 days break afterwards. My FWB and I fuck pretty rough but he can go everyday

  75. Henry5321 Avatar

    When my wife and were grossly out of shape from decades of sitting around playing video games, we could go indefinitely. The longest we went from was breakfast to dinner, skipped lunch. We were so out of shape. All about pacing.

  76. KludgyOne67095 Avatar

    If you got that Love, high Libido & Stamina, it’s pretty simple.

  77. celestialsexgoddess Avatar

    It very rarely happens, but when I have someone to physically do it with, I love having sex as many times as we could handle in a day and feeling sore the next day and going at it again until we can’t.

    Obviously this isn’t sustainable in a long term relationship where we need to go to work, cook dinner, do laundry, file taxes and have all sorts of responsibilities to juggle.

    The most sex I’ve had in a day is four times, which last happened over a year ago with a holiday fling. That was a lot of fun.

    I’m currently in another relationship where we haven’t had multiple times of sex in a day, but our intimate life is a happy one at a level we’re finding sustainable. But if the opportunity presents itself, for example we go on a romantic holiday together, I would try to fuck him twice every day, and would suggest we set one day aside where we try to have more sex than that.

  78. Snaggl3t00t4 Avatar

    Of course! When I was younger I think my record was 4 or 5? As you get older..not so easy but definitely when you’re below 30.

  79. EatingCoooolo Avatar

    The soreness only last about a day. If the person turns you on you’re ready to go at all times.

  80. iamkristo Avatar

    You just do the sex, then you again do the sex and later you do again the sex.

    That’s at least how we do it

  81. LunaTic0922 Avatar

    This fascinates me as well.. and confuses and worries lol

    If my man had his way neither of us would work unless it was in the porn industry… I don’t even know how many times in one day he could go because i get sore and feel raw after so long lol

  82. Razorray21 Avatar

    Skill, patience, and dedication.

    Fr though, as a man, Cardio and a good diet goes a long way

  83. EatingCoooolo Avatar

    If you’re with someone who turns you on you can go even go 6 or 7 times at 44. The soreness happens like twice a year and lasts one day.

  84. Compote_Alive Avatar

    Gosh I remember those days …

  85. jomaco13 Avatar

    Sore and Exhausted, almost to the point of passing out like life depens on it 🤷

  86. ItoldyouIdbeback Avatar

    The same way I did the first time.

  87. MildlyUnoriginal2 Avatar

    My fwb has such a high libido that I brought my best friend in to help and we switch off. Even then with staying hydrated, sex toys, and supplements we are frequently not able to keep up with her. It’s wild and very fun. I am so sore and exhausted after our romantic excursions, but I love every minute of it. 

  88. PotentialTurnover335 Avatar

    I only could tell you how’s feel to not have sex in many years

  89. Mr-Bry-Guy Avatar

    Good blood flow lol learn what get you going and find a partner that’ll play with that. Idky but apparently people expect all men to be machines lmfao but truthfully you probably have it in you you just have to have a partner that’s smooth cool calm and collected patient and willing to not just lay there. Those are the gems.

  90. whatarechinchillas Avatar

    You don’t always have to go all out every time.

  91. MountainOne3769 Avatar

    Edge. That’s the only way

  92. halimusicbish Avatar

    My ex and I used to have sex at night, then a quickie in the morning. It really didn’t take that much effort, and it kind of just naturally happened since we were already naked and horny when we woke up

  93. Ok-Door-4991 Avatar

    I’ve hit 9 times one day, new gf in my 20’s..

  94. red_knots_x Avatar

    Stay hydrated and be in reasonably good shape. Cardio helps. Also having a broader definition of sex beyond PIV, so including some rope bondage, role play, s&m, and other activities as part of sex makes it easier. 

    I’ll often have sex with a partner at the beginning of the evening or as part of a kink scene, then we’ll do dinner and chill for a bit, then sex again before falling asleep. 

  95. quirinus97 Avatar

    I call it my infinite balls of cum, but honestly it only happens when I work out

  96. GrumpyCloud93 Avatar

    There’s the old joke about the Coolidge Effect.

    Calvin Coolidge and his wife were touring a government model farm. They were in separate groups – Mrs. Coolidge got to the chicken coop first. She asks her guide, “How often does the rooseter do it ?” The reply was “About 10 times a day.” She says, “Tell that to Mister Coolidge.”

    President Coolidge gets to the coop, and they tell him what Mrs. Coolidge said about the rooster. He asks, “Same chicken every time?” and they reply “No, different chicken each time.”

    He says “Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge.”

  97. Melancholic84 Avatar

    When i was in my 20s and early 30s, twice a day was easy for me. I play a lot of sports so the stamina was there, now im 41 and i lost some of my drive and general stamina, i don’t think i can do twice a day anymore.

  98. Employee_Agreeable Avatar

    You fuck

    You take a break (couple minutes to couple hours)

    You fuck

    Rinse and repeat

  99. CaptainGashMallet Avatar

    Some people are just lucky.

  100. ctn91 Avatar

    6.5hrs at the local gay sauna once. That was most excellent. 10/10

  101. Think_Reporter_8179 Avatar

    Have really hot partners and you’ll understand

  102. Derplimat Avatar

    Hypersexual married to another hypersexual here.

    Yes, we get sore sometimes, so we do a lot of non-penetrative foreplay to keep the soreness down. If one of us is too sore for penatration, there are other ways to get off.

    I used to get exhausted from the sex, but I got in great shape, so that’s no longer an issue. Now I’m constantly exhausted from exercise and work 🤣 but I still find time for my wife.

    It’s not like we plan on having sex constantly. Sometimes, I just can’t help but slap her ass and she can’t help but bend over and shake it. Sometimes, I get out of the shower, and she just grabs my johnson and leads me to the bedroom. Sometimes, we wake in the night already mid-coitus, not knowing who initiated it or how we got into that position.

  103. Skya_the_weirdo Avatar

    My boyfriend and I (I’m 19 and he’s 21, both guys) would put a movie or show on and flip between sex and watching for hours at a time. It was great

  104. Unruly_Beast Avatar

    I’m just literally always horny and ready to go ¯_(ツ)_/¯

  105. Noddersquib Avatar

    Have the sex, keep having the sex, ignore physical pain, keep having sex.

  106. Ki113rpancakes Avatar

    My wife and I used to spend entire days just lying in bed, talking, cuddling, fucking, napping and repeating. That was our early 30’s. Now we are lucky to get it weekly

  107. rroyd Avatar

    Sildenafil

  108. Simen155 Avatar

    My record is 10 times in one day. The last couple of times were mostly for bragging rights, for the both of us, it was like pushing a deflated balloon in a sandpaper tube by the knot.

  109. Luroj02 Avatar

    Geting rid of porn to a better sensitivity, hiit to have a better stamina, nitric oxide suplements to better erections, edging (if you do it correctly).

    If you get overstimulated you enter into the refractory period, if you get used to looots of stimolous before cuming then you can last longer and after a long session you can cum with just a little of direct stimolous so not real overstimulation so not refractory period.

    Working on your personal/emotional problems not related to sex, helps too.

  110. Different-Pair-7935 Avatar

    Husband and I have been married for 17 years, we mostly have sex daily but sometimes we’re both just a horny mess and have had sex 5 times in a day. We both have a high drive , and after a while he will say his dick is sore and can’t handle anymore 😂

  111. Professional-Bit3475 Avatar

    They’re horny with free time

  112. PaleHearseNamedDeath Avatar

    I’m guessing they use their genitals.

  113. OddDragonfruit7993 Avatar

     Here’s my (and my partner at that age) personal best stats.  These are not normal numbers, but are my records for those years (give or take a year or two):  

    Age 21 (partner age 24): 9x.

    Age 31 (partner age 25): 6x. 

    Age 41 (partner 41): 5x.  

    Age 51 (partner 51): 3x.  

    Age 61 (partner 61): 2x.  

    I’ll give you the next reading in 9 years.

    So…yeah.  Age has a LOT to do with it.  And partner, of course.

  114. Ancient-Tap-3592 Avatar

    I find I can do more if I don’t cum everytime. Sometimes, you just want to feel good with someone so I can get them to finish but not finish myself so that in a couple of hours, I have enough energy to actually go all the way. There’s also taking turns on who is doing most of the job… but those are more tricks to try managing multiple times a day

    It’s mostly about being young with way too much energy and horny as fuck 24/7

  115. dottybotty Avatar

    Cause they horny

  116. Darkest_Brandon Avatar

    When someone’s developed a large enough client base they can work all day.