Get turned on by being called gay

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I am straight. But at a party a few weeks ago I got called gay and feminine by a fellow. I thought I would feel insulted but for some reason it really turned me on. I got home later that night and downloaded Grindr to chat with men. I haven’t done it again and would like to think it was the alcohol but the feeling crawl back sometimes. Does this make me gay?

Comments

  1. BinaryBeany Avatar

    Yes at least bi.

  2. Venasaur3 Avatar

    No. Try it out though! No harm done

  3. jordanthehoatie Avatar

    Taking into account age, education, and industry, gay men earn less than heterosexuals even though they tend to be better educated than the average population.

  4. WoahWhatABird Avatar

    Sexuality, to me, isn’t so cut and dry as bi, gay or straight. I’m almost 30 and I’m still learning what and who I like. I had a whole realization when I had a guy tell me he wanted me to “treat him like my bitch” recently that I’m into that! We change and then something new comes along and we learn about ourselves.