I’m 21(F). I hang around my best friend 33(F) and her partner 29(M). I started talking to a guy he’s 25. I like him so much. When I first met him my friend and her bf had to meet him to make sure nothing bad happened. I was hesitant but eventually let them. That night we were drinking. The person I’m talking to does have autism. I was so angry at my so called “brother” friend when he started making fun of him. I have siblings with autism and i understand what goes on. I decided I wanted to leave. The next thing that happened was them interrogating him like crazy. He left early the next morning because he had college. He blew up on them. She told me the next day he owed her an apology for him blowing up at him. I was annoyed because he didn’t owe her nothing. Then it was trash talking him and judging him. Even went and texted his baby mama. Which I will not believe everything that she said. I would go home and just cry. I defended him in situations but it got to the point where I felt defeated. He drove me out to his grandmas and had to drive me back. I gave him some money. They made a big deal out of it and eventually contacted him. I couldn’t stand hearing anymore garbage. So I texted my friend my feelings. I was calm and collected. She took it as attacking. We fought and I haven’t cried that hard in a while. I told her it was wrong what she was doing and I didn’t want to be around if that’s all they were gonna do. Then her bf my “brother” decided to send a long message saying “how dare I” and “if I chose this path don’t come back” there was so many swear words. I didn’t respond and eventually being the bigger person did apologize to her even though I was the one who deserved the apology. I was more angry then sad at him and now I just feel more awkward around him then anything and don’t know what to do. My boyfriend wants me to cut them off completely but there’s a child involved and it’s more complicated and I’m not sure what to do