I think I have an unhealthy relationship with masturbation

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As a female, I do find myself odd. Most females I know, don’t masturbate, or if they do it’s not often. I masturbate frequently, sometimes more than once a day. So talking to my female friends about this doesn’t help.

Comments

  1. Forward-Help7588 Avatar

    You might be surprised at the difference between what people do and what they say they do. If it isn’t making problems, you won’t break anything, enjoy yourself

  2. Internal_Pianist1227 Avatar

    I am a female who also does this ur not alone sis lol

  3. ExcitingDrag8847 Avatar

    What makes it unhealthy?

  4. obviouslytraumatized Avatar

    Just because they don’t admit to it doesn’t mean they don’t do it lol plus it doesn’t matter how many time you do it as long as it doesn’t affect your life in a negative way (can’t keep relationships, porn addiction, etc) then I don’t see anything wrong with multiple sessions in a day.

  5. DaddyBardock Avatar

    You’re fine. Most people who claim they don’t masturbate are lying. Masturbating daily is fine but if it gets in the way of your life then you might have a problem. If not, I wouldn’t worry about it.

  6. that_swishbish Avatar

    Lol. Yes they do.

  7. Mysterious-Camera529 Avatar

    I definitely masturbate at least once a day lol. Sometimes multiple if I smoke a little weed that really gets me going hahahah
    I’ll go a few weeks without doing it if I’m traveling or having a depressive episode but yeah masturbation is very normal!

  8. Breiting_131 Avatar

    What matters more than how often you do it is how it makes you feel. If it’s interfering with your daily life, emotional health, or you feel like it’s becoming a compulsion rather than a choice, it might be worth exploring that more deeply, maybe with a therapist who specializes in sexual health

  9. sierrat0nin Avatar

    They’re lying, babe. Healthy sexual appetite is nothing to question or feel “odd.” It’s self-care.

  10. Old-Persimmon-8742 Avatar

    Dude. Females don’t take pride in this like men do.
    But every single human even animals do it. So don’t overthink.
    Obviously anything in excess is bad.

  11. NotSurer Avatar

    Unless you’re saying no and forcing yourself on yourself I think you’re fine. And as far as “most females don’t” I don’t think people are being truthful, most people do to some extent.

  12. CoolSide20 Avatar

    Seeing how OP commented on a comment that they had an extremely religious background, then the guilt is probably coming from that past. Masturbation is normal, it’s a natural human “need.” I’m currently Christian, but I believe that as long as you don’t over indulge and that it hurts your life, ruin it, or takes up important time bc ‘you just gotta do it’ then you’re fine

    This guilt your feeling is most likely from your extreme religious background and you being taught that it’s wrong.

  13. yung_tyberius Avatar

    Every woman I’ve been with did (or still does idk) daily, same thing sometimes more than once a day. It’s not unusual, honestly just make sure you’re not drowning out feelings or issues by stimulating yourself. That’s the hard line I believe when it goes from perfectly fine to unhealthy

  14. HazelTheRah Avatar

    You have a high libido. Nothing wrong with that. And your girlfriends may not be being honest since girls tend to get shamed since childhood about feeling sexual at all. Getting past the stigma isn’t easy.

  15. Noctiluca04 Avatar

    When I was single it was definitely daily. It’s pretty rare now, usually only if my husband is out of town for a while.

  16. Dry-Astronomer-1687 Avatar

    I am near 50 and it’s 3-4 times a day when I am bored just like when I was younger

  17. BigDosser- Avatar

    If someone openly asked me how often I masturbated I would 100% not tell the truth just because I know people’s reaction. But trust me you’re not alone on this one!

  18. hlnhr Avatar

    I do it even non sexually sometimes. Just because I know it’ll make me feel good and relaxed. Cheers.

  19. Temporary-Test-9534 Avatar

    Pretty sure most girls lie about how much they actually masturbate

  20. cottoncandymandy Avatar

    So I don’t now at the stage of life I’m in, but there were years and years I did every day, and if it was a day off? I’d lay in bed half the day and do it multiple times. You’re fine unless it’s getting in the way of your life and/or affecting your responsibilities.

    (Do not DM me perverts)

  21. ParalegalGuy Avatar

    When I first started taking testosterone, I would masturbate almost ten times a day.

  22. dezzy778 Avatar

    Well this is the moment you became a bro.