My girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me

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And I have no idea what to do. We have a band and a cat together. I have to go to work in 15 minutes. Desperately trying not to dissociate and pull my shit together. Send help or cat pics, idk. The lesbian drama is eating me alive.

Comments

  1. llamataco94 Avatar

    it’s okay, i’ve been there. i hope you make it through work without imploding. i’m sorry she did that to you, it sounds sudden. love ❤️

  2. DavidManvell Avatar

    Just going to get stuff done mode. Go to work do your job. Take care of the kitty.

  3. Objective-Garlic-917 Avatar

    You’ll get there! These moments suck of course.. and naturally you’re upset. The only thing I can say is it will get better, the hurt will become less eventually 🤍 just keep your head up as much as you can today! You got this 💪🏽

  4. Statttter Avatar

    Take some time to get your head around it — it’s raw right now — hopefully find a way through to stay friends/band mates and write some killer new tracks. But if it doesn’t work out that way, seek support from neutral friends. I don’t know what to suggest about the cat. 🙏

  5. Medium-Discount-4815 Avatar

    Congratulations! Now go live your life.

  6. tinymoth- Avatar

    As a fellow lesbian who is going through a LTR breakup, I feel this… Breakups are so hard, be gentle with yourself. You don’t have to figure everything out right now, you just need to get through the work shift, hydrate, and decide if you want to stay somewhere else for the night (if you live together). I hope your relationship will allow for a clean transition and you are able to lean into your supports.

    Grief isn’t linear and you don’t have to rush through it. You will find your way through this ❤️

  7. kysinatra Avatar

    Oooff lesbian breakups are worse (former lesbian, trans man) and losing someone you have loved for the long hurts. Be kind to yourself OP🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  8. Nine-hundred-babies Avatar

    I’m so sorry. I know it can feel like you can’t breathe. It seems like she blindsided you and that’s horible