He’s my therapist, I’ll never pursue him. I did come across his profile while I was looking for therapists and thought he was really cute. I met with him for a consultation and now he’s my therapist.
I know this might sound super weird but I just like knowing that I can spill my heart out to a guy who will reliably listen to me and empathize with me on a regular basis. It’s like, although I like him, i get all that I want out of this. I just want to spend time being therapized by this cute guy. I don’t want to have sex or be in a serious relationship with him or anything
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. I don’t think you even need to tell him. As long as you both stay professional and he is a good listener. At the same time, if you depend on seeing him – emotionally – weekly, it might be a good idea to get some more support groups with some other guys when you can have fun. You can use his support to branch off. I have had good and bad therapists. Male and female. More good than bad.