My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years. It’s a serious, committed relationship. When we hit 6 years, we decided to be intimate for the first time — it was mutual and something we both wanted.
Recently, my mom found out and the first thing she said was that my boyfriend probably won’t marry me anymore because of it. It really hurt hearing that from her, because it felt like she completely disregarded everything we’ve built and been through in almost 7 years, just because of one thing that’s normal in a serious relationship.
I just want respect for my decisions and my relationship. I don’t need comments like that, especially from my own mother.
Feels a little lighter letting it out. Thanks to anyone who reads this.
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Ummmm just out of curiosity how old are you?
Part of growing up making your own plans and living by your own values. You are 26, why would you tell your mom about what you do with your boyfriend at al? You are an adult, act like it. If you want to be married, talk to your boyfriend. Have an open conversation about what you would like in the future. If his vision does not line up with yours, find a new boyfriend and repeat the process.