I thought he stopped doing this since he did like a year ago but now he keeps slapping my ass and it’s uncomfortable, I know I can just say to stop doing that but I don’t know why I can’t be able to say those type of words
He treats me great tho he just always slaps my ass and I still wonder If that’s normal still in Filipino culture to do since my friend experiences the same thing with there own dad too which they are also Filipinos, I don’t know anymore
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I don’t think that’s normal in any culture, if you feel uncomfortable just tell him , i know a few filipno and they have no experience as such .
i feel your dad’s action and intention was an endearing one and not from a sexual perspective
Slap him back
get angry.
It’s not bad to be angry sometimes. Quite the contrary, it usually clears the situation and enforces boundaries.
When dealing with people like this, make sure you never turn your back to them. Dont pass within arms reach. You have to train yourself to remember, but its worth doing.
my dad used to do this until I was 18 and I told him to not touch me like that, he obeyed but sometimes forgot and I still told him, he stopped, all you can do is tell him
The only person you’re benefiting by not speaking up for yourself is him, Girl please speak up, choose courage, choose yourself, don’t dim your light so someone else can hold power over you, it’s not okay and you should hold your head high and speak up you’ll feel better for it afterwards and he needs to know!
Uh, I don’t think that’s normal. The only time my Filipino father slapped my ass growing up was never.
My Filipino mom though, anytime I misbehaved, that was a slipper to the ass.
I had this issue with my older brother too. It was okay when I was a kid, but he didnt stop even when I got older. But at some point it stopped. I guess because I started expressive a big repulsion. Like, a sudden big move away when he does it. And I made a repulsive face like I wad expressing how I really hated it.
I think his dick needs that ass thatswhy he is doing like similar i do with mom
It’s all fun and games till he starts using his dick…
I know a few Filipinos and may I just say, Filipinos have very SEA attitude towards relationship/family.
This problem that you mentioned is one of them. Having no boundaries.
Its unfortunate but the way I see it – if you do make a big deal out of it it may feel like you are ‘going against the family’ so i understand the dilemma you face.
Is your dad a reasonable guy? Might you be able to just let him know how u feel?
Or are there other family memebrs still around? Is your mom still around? Or your grandma? Might you be able to tell them ur situation?