I ask because there’s a guy at my work I think is cute but he’s a very large guy with a bit of a belly and when I was daydreaming about him, it occurred to me that I don’t actually know how to approach intimacy with him because his belly might get in the way 🙁
Do they suck in their stomachs?? Or hold it back? Help!
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How large are we talking? You’d be surprised how much weight you need so it really gets on your way. “A bit of a belly” shouldn’t be a major issue.
I once read a story here on reddit of a girl in a similar situation to you. I believe in her case she dated a string of really bad men and decided to give a bigger man (like 300+ pounds) she wasn’t normally attracted a chance. The date went so great they slept with each other the first night. Turns out size wasn’t an issue at all. She said at first she was nervous because she knew she wouldn’t be able to do the thing in bed she normally did. However, none of that mattered because it ended up being some of the best sex of her life. She was somewhat detailed and said all he did was lay on top of her with all his weight and thrusted. Apparently, that did it for her. She described it as very pleasure and extremely intimate. Maybe this is how it’ll turn out for you, or maybe it will be awful. Whether it’s bad or not is the fault of his weight, but your inability to be open-minded to a new experience from someone you’re interested in. Personally, I’d say give a shot, but I can’t control you, so good luck
Having a hog helps.
Like the other guy commented, unless the belly is actually hanging over his waistline I doubt there would be a significant difference. Maybe some positions would take some more effort tho?
Unless his belly is so large and saggy that it literally covers his penis, it won’t get in the way. He knows what to do with his body, you won’t have to figure anything out. I guess the answer is: just like everyone else. Him on top, you on top, from behind, etc. I asked my husband because he is the one with the belly and he said while on our sides he can’t cuddle in close with his upper body but that’s the only limitation he can think of.
Put dingdong in hoo-ha. Sex achieved. Fat guy happy.
You’d be surprised how determined people can be. Besides, fat is squishy. If anything, it just helps give bounce and a nice cushion. Ime as a woman it’s more comfortable with a guy who has some meat on his bones, so I don’t feel like the guy’s anvil.
If you told him all this, im pretty sure youd make his year
I’m 6’0, 275. My wife is little bitty. I’ve got a dad bod and a belly. We’ve literally never had a single problem. You’re almost definitely overthinking it!
Choose someone your own size. 😉
Reddit is the perfect place to ask this.
He’s got a dick do? Like his belly sticks out more than his dick do?
Girl on top. Backshot
Unless he’s got buried penis syndrome. (Dont google)Yeah, it’s a real thing. But you’ve got to be like big big. It’s not like a 3xl t shirt big.
Ride cowgirl ride!
With consent, but seriously they’ll let you know if something is wrong. Just gotta listen to your partner.
If your not married it’s a sin to want sex with him anyway
The way I thought this was about large genital size
Depending on his tummy size and/or dick size, some positions may be trickier. E.g. woman on top. But most other positions should be fine.
(Source: have had sex with quite a few larger guys.)
Kinda jumping the gun, no?
I imagine they probably just bend the knee 🤷🏻♂️
Usually, I take 30 steps back, lubricate at that spot, then full sprint into target.
Jk, I’m avg. No idea
It seems that all the other big guys have decided to not comment. So here I am. 5’11” 340. I can touch my toes and remain flexible. I have a very physical job as a mechanic. I’m a big guy and we get physical regularly just fine and all the pieces fit perfectly.
Happily married 9 years, together for 13, and nothing has stood in our way. Plus big guys are always up for post coitus tacos at 1am.
Give him a chance. Update me.
I like that you’re a fatty lover, btw. Good for you.
Are we talking “Randy” from trailer park boys? type of belly because he had no issue with ahem… Lahey
It’s like a riding a horse. Literally. Just have him on his back, and ride’em, cowgirl!
Bless you OP for daydreaming about a big guy. Follow your instincts and he will figure it out.
just warning you : he snores !
He has to do a hand stand at the end of the bed while you’re in doggy position.. It’s the only way to get the belly out of the way.
Look up Gerald gschieler aka human musclebear on instagram and find out
He will find a way to make it work, don’t worry.
If you could give us a point of reference, that would be very helpful. To put it simply, if he is as big as Jelly Roll Or BigXthaPlug then yeah, of course things kind of get in the way, but even still there are ways around that. If we’re talking about something like an ex athlete build, like a linebacker that got fat or something, no there won’t be any issues.
Give them your number and find out for yourself.
As a bigger guy, it has literally not once ever gotten in the way.
Doggy style is the ultimate equaliser.
Unless he’s got a small penis you’ll be fine.
I feel very qualified to answer this, I am 6ft5 and very large, 500lb range, my partner is 5ft2 and a healthy weight. We have no issues having sex, either her on top or me on top. It sometimes takes some adjusting, maybe a pillow under her hips but outside of that we have no issues at all. We have a very healthy sex life.
Start flirting with him and find out then report back.
I’m 5 foot 10 300 lbs with a belly. It’s no where near in the way and my partner have awesome sex. Go for it
I have a belly. Probably not that big, but still. If a woman would say something like…
“Hey, so I was imagining us having sex and just trying to figure out where the belly goes while I’m on top of you. Do I like, flip it up and just snuggle in?”
…I think my head might explode with horniness.
6’7 275 here.
My belly doesn’t stick out, I’m just thick head to toe.
5’4 wife, no problems.
Well, have you considered different positions? Also, if he kisses good, then love the big fella, if not, then you won’t need to know anyways.. unless of course you’ve gotta thing for large men.. I meant, LARGE MEN.
I’ve a beer gut that doesn’t cover anything but I would call myself fat. The only issue ive had is it’s harder to a sitting position, you have to do a slouch. And when putting it in I can’t see anything so I gotta go by feel. Other than that theres 0 issues. My partner has told me if we do doggy sometime she feels my belly on her butt, but she likes my belly a lot so it works out
Depend how large you’re talking but I’m quite chubby and have never encountered a way in which it blocked anything.
By “bit of a belly,” do you mean “gut hangs over his penis?”
As a guy with a bit of a belly, this is the only way I could see it being an issue.
I’m not a fat guy but I do have a gut. I’m working on it. Not really. I’m in denial. I just keep thinking it’ll go away.
Anyways, I don’t have the largest penis, but I’m above average which definitely helps.
My wife and I can do pretty much any position. If we do missionary I get tired fast because I try and prop myself up higher so I don’t crush her.
Sometimes I’ll stand at the foot of our bed and she’ll lay on her back on the bed and I can go to town without my belly being in the way.
Since it’s a large gut when she’s on top it’s not really in the way. She can grind her clit on my pubic bone no problem.
Doggy style is our favorite and probably the most eh position not only because of my gut, but also because the size of her absolute dump truck of an ass.
All I gotta do is pull her cheeks apart and push them kinda up a little and I can get in there just fine.
I’m sure if I were thinner it’d be easier, but we have pretty good sex when my penis decides to cooperate.
I always wondered this, I know of a couple who are both very large. Unless his piece is like 15” I just don’t see how it’s possible. But the woman always spoke about how good their sex was so it must work out just fine.
I mean, the best part about bigger guys is that they obviously know how to eat iykwim 😉