Me (m25) and my roommate (f24) were watching a movie together the other day, half way through the movie we were almost cuddling with each other. We were a little drunk. After the movie ended she kissed me. I stopped her because she has a boyfriend, she wouldn’t let me go. We went back and forth for a bit and I managed to pull myself out of there before we did anything which we would regret later. It took a lot of strength to drag myself to my room because I’ve recently found myself attracted to her, but I have never acted on it and constantly reminded myself that she has a boyfriend. It has been awkward since that day. I dont know what to do. I don’t want to be a relationship wrecker and at the same time I feel like grabbing her by the waist and pull her closer. Ah fuck. I’ve become someone who i hate.
A relationship wrecker. Fml!
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Do you think she has true feelings for you or was it the drink?. If she dose she want you she should end it with her BF before you two start a relationship.
I think it’s best to talk about it which, understandably, is going to be difficult to psych yourself up for.
Maybe, hey I’m not really sure what happened the other night, but you have a BF and I don’t want to mess anything up for you.
See what she says.
You did prevent it from getting worse, you are not a relationship wrecker.
Could you ever really trust this girl if you two ended up together considering this is how she treats her boyfriend? I say just pretend like it didn’t happen, maybe don’t cuddle anymore.
Years ago, when I was MUCH younger, a female friend of my brother and cousin was plastered as hell! My brother and cousin decided to take her home. She looked at me and asked me my name as she was getting into their car. I told her and she said, “You’re my boyfriend!” (Her bf at the time had the same name as mine.) I mumbled under my breath, “Only if you were sober.”
You didn’t wreck her relationship. She did. Just remember, cheaters gonna cheat.
Don’t hang out at home.
If she can do that to the poor guy, she’ll do that to you too.
If she cheats, she belongs to the streets
Kudos. You’re a stronger man than my pathetic ex. Seriously, I commend your moral fortitude. It’s a hugely respectable trait.
well she already cheated on her boyfriend. so shes not exactly relationship material now