And if you don’t like someone does that give you the right to think you have any control over what they can or can’t do with their own body in their own fucking flat
Is it really so weird for a 29 year old male to have a wank most or every day?
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If it’s weird I don’t want to be normal.
Sometimes 2 x a day
Not at all. As an older man, I’ll tell you to enjoy that sex drive while you still got it.
It’s good for you! Helps against prostate cancer.
Daily masturbation is fine for any gender. Provided it doesn’t interfere with your required daily activities, have at it.
What makes you think it’s weird?
I’ll be the first to disagree with three major points:
Wanking takes a lot of energy and leaves you unmotivated. I’d better spend this energy more productive .
It gives you a dopamine spike, leaving other activities less enjoyable. Which is sad, you can feel like a shell of yourself.
Also porn can do fun things to your brain, so I’d not recommend doing that. At least do your thing without it. And imo having sex with your wife is much better, because there is an emotional connection you can’t have with a screen naked woman who sells her body.
But you live your life however you want or course 😀 Everybody has a different context. I just try to live a productive life, and I’ve measured my performance lots of times and came to the conclustion that those 3 points make me less productive overall
29? I wasn’t aware that there were 29 year olds who don’t have a daily wank and/or sex.
Wank away my friend! As someone from a long relationship, having a wank is for you.
Just don’t exchange her for porn. Talk to her about it. And if she feels like you are measuring her with the porn, assure her that you are not just that we men tend to be very visual.
Heh, me and the missus had this talk. She offered me to have a wank and cum on her ass when she slept, instead of just watching porn. That way she felt that she also was involved.
And for me it felt deliciously naughty, line being a school boy again and doing something you shouldn’t.
But in all seriousness, talk to her about it. The first thing for any relationship is communication.
It’s not “weird”, it’s just something that you need to know the consequences of.
It will get your testosterone levels lower.
It will likely make you less satisfied with actual sex.
Even though “post nut clarity” is a thing for sure, ultimately it takes energy away.
It can also be an act of compensation, i.e. you are bored alone so you wank it.
I’ve been there too, the reason I got out is because I noticed the energy depletion and I got very disgusted of pornography over the years. But at the same time, every week there is that point once or twice when I feel too horny to keep focused on the day, that’s the time to do it for me.
Where it does get “weird”, is if you still feel the need to do it every day even when you are living with a significant other that you can have sex with. If that happens, that’s worth thinking about.
Not at all. Wish I still had the urge to wank every day like I use to. Maybe once a week now if I’m lucky.
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It’s not weird at all. There are better uses for your time and energy. As a 40+ male, I wish I had the sex drive of a 29 year old. You can only do the same thing so many times before it becomes tiresome.
You probably have depression and that the short term kick is what actually makes you feel okay for a while.
I’d probably seek help if I were you.
No judgement, I’ve been there during lockdowns.
As a female … who works in sexual health & specifically with sexual dysfunction (ED, peyronies, etc & FSD)… and in digital sex work …. If you’re not doing it all day every day, you’re probably good. It seems like an unhealthy mentality to think blowing a load should only be for a partner and is rooted in shame, in my opinion. Even in a partnership, it can be beneficial for each individual to have their own individual relationship with themselves in terms of masturbation, a really in general. Don’t get addicted to porn (and these standards and blame on porn addiction is largely pressed by religious communities – new research around this), don’t expect partners to be like what you see in porn & have a life outside of jerking off and you’re good 😂
Nope. Good for brain and body. If someone’s trying to police what you do with your own body, in your own home, that person is a weirdo and needs to be told to mind their own business.
I find it soooooo strange that people are so insecure about themselves they cant handle the thought of someone having a wank!
Those are the people who really need to have a wank 😂
Invest in an inflatable rubber doll to help you with your daily wank!
Literally do whatever you want with your body. But the only way anyone would think it’s weird is if you told them about it. Now that is not a very normal thing to do 😬
I think it’s normal. As long as you aren’t wanking infront of others.
There are guys out there who are only wanking once per day?
I’m a woman and I don’t think it’s weird. When I was younger and had a normal sex drive, I would do it most days.
I’m 29 and rubbed one out a few minutes ago. Nothing wrong with a little self care.
53 at least once a day
No It’s not wrong, but why on earth have you allowed someone to know you do that everyday? Are you loudly wanking or is just over sharing.
I’m past 50 and wank almost every day. Some days I still get up to four times a day. It’s free entertainment!
Use it or lose it is 100% correct.
No? I’m a 34 year old woman and I masturbate almost every day. It’s a good stress reliever. In addition to sex- it fills a whole other need.
Are you denying sex to a significant other? If so yes it’s odd, if not go to town.
I’m 55 and take a “long shower” at least a couple times a week. You’re good.
Hell, I’m 50 and I cranked it twice last night. I try for 2 most days.
Having a daily wank is fine, having a daily wank to porn while edging yourself for 30+ mins isn’t healthy by any means. Hope i dont get downvoted for this but its the truth. Also, if you dont mind me asking, why did you feel the need to ask this question?
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It’s only weird that you’re not trying to put it in someone instead.
I get blown or fuck every day so it’s not weird. Jerk a nut out and carry on with your day satisfied
I am 43 years old and still try to have a daily orgasm. I also try to maintain a cadence of going at it once or twice a week with my wife.
Use your body while it works.
No weirder than a 60-year-old guy doing it.
Good for prostate health
Pretty sure it prevents prostate cancer so crack on lad.
Good way to get kicked out of Walmart😂
What I’m hearing is feel free to abuse yourself just get back to work when you’re done.
No. Whomever told you that is trying to control you
Seems pretty normal. Even healthy for your prostate.
The second part seems kind of defensive… Have you been harmed by purity culture? Purity culture is lame.
Not at all. Get after it.
It’s not weird, however I find that when I refrain from wanking every day it helps me build the motivation to socialize and speak to women. I feel like cumming too often neutralizes my social skills
Nope. Has someone been telling you so?
Do you go around and tell everyone you see that you “wank” everyday? Really, why do you think anyone should give a shit about what you do with your own body?
It reduces the risk of cancer I’ve heard.
I think it’s weird people wouldn’t, enjoy yourself
Thank you for reminding me
Hands up anyone who ever had a wank at work. I mean, you can’t walk around the office with a hard on.
Its by design.
The more you wank the less likely you’ll store primal energy for attracting women, because you wont need/want to release
So the non wankers will have my spirit power to devour women with their eyes to seal the deal.
Wanko’s usually don’t have to worry about it but if you want women try to save up for a few days to generate fury.
I read an Asian warrior’s proverb about the loss of drop of semen having more effect on a man’s power than 10 drops of blood. Obviously the average load of a pent up male is like 2 pints of blood but if your a daily wanker you never had that much to begin with.
Modern porn is the downfall of structured society as the need to drive oneself forward is diminished by the access to insta-gratification. Why struggle when you can just win, even if it leads to a huge downfall later? Well, cya in hell!
Just one?
If people know you are wanking every day then you aren’t being private enough about it.
Nah man, it’s not weird. most people do it, they just don’t talk about it.
If your not horny your not healthy
Once a day at 29?
Those are rookie numbers.
Most I’ve done is 6 in one day
Of course not. Wanking is a hobby of mine.
No.
Why does someone care how you want or how much? Ask them why they’re wanting to know? Unless they’re offering to help, their opinion can be politely shoved somewhere that’ll get me banned by a reddit mod.
Once a day? Those are rookie numbers
You’re fine. If others are telling you different, they’re just in denial.
Absolutely not. Your body, your choice.
You can do it, but the general trend is the more Os you have with your hand and porn, the less you have with actual human people.
That’s totally normal.
I thought hard about how weird it could be but I can’t get to the bottom of it … quite infamous … but can pass as normal seeing the amount of people who practice it….
(read OP’s username and read this again)
From the age of 10 to the age of 26 it was a normal daily thing in a reletionship out of a reletionship still normal married now still happens 1-2 times a week
Sounds pretty normal to me. Not hurting anyone, frankly none of anyone’s business
Is it weird for a 42 year old to have a daily wank, asking for a friend.
Not really.
Id say it’s weird that your publicly talking about it. Not wierd to do but definitely weird to talk about.
It’s kinda a lot, but everyone is definitely different. Many women do the same. Seems to be a human thing.
I find it weird to NOT have a wank everyday.
I’m 48, I’m still in this club, while being married and chasing her to ground 2-3 times a week. I hope this is normal lol
I’m old M55. I am comfortable with my wanking habits. But I think you have to be careful with porn and death grip: you want to have your imagination still running without needing porn to be horny because that is unsustainable.
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