I’m slowly becoming selfish and less mindful of others.

All my life I’ve been a mostly good person with a big conscience. I would say when I’m a good person in public I do it 80% because I’m good and 20% because I care how I appear to others. That’s gone down to 50-50.

I’m in my late 30s.

Examples are things like holding the door open for people, putting back the trolley at the supermarket, re-racking weights at the gym. I still do it, but now I do it less because I know it’s the right thing to do and more because I don’t want to be perceived as an asshole.

I’m sure if I continue on this trajectory then one day I’ll be a semi-asshole/inconsiderate of others.