I miss when my wife and I were dating and we were actually happy. Over time things have only gotten worse since we’ve been married. We’ve had a lot of disasters happen during the early part of our marriage and health crisises. We’re just drained. My wife has gotten a lot of promotions and now makes more money than I do and she gets frustrated when I can’t pay my half of our expenses. She treats me like I’m an annoyance and a nuisance constantly. She wants nothing to do with me. Every weekend she goes out with her friends and doesn’t ever want to do anything with me. Any time I suggest an outing or activity for us to go to she has zero interest in it.
She told me she doesn’t think we’re actually good fit together anymore but does nothing to try to get us back on track. I’m not entirely blameless in the problems we have and I acknowledge that and want to move forward but she clearly doesn’t want to. I’m getting really tired of trying. We’ve only been married for four years and they’ve been the most exhausting years of my life. I’m so drained. I work a job that I hate going to every day but I hate going home too.
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hang in there, lot of people are going through this right now. it’s an era where people are being bombarded by outside influences, impressions, shifts in ideologies, that make us all second guess what we’re doing, who we’re with and ourselves that absolutely ruptures sanity and propagates depression because they feel like they’ve lost control of situations.
Figure out how to become better for yourself right now, can’t worry about being a better husband if you can’t do that first.
If the communicate isn’t there and you can not get it on track…..well you need to do what you need to do.
Good luck.