I think it’s the little rituals. Like how my ex used to press his lips to my forehead every morning before I even opened my eyes. That part? I kinda miss
Desire and anticipation. When you’re in a relationship for a long time you need to keep your partner feeling desired. You have to keep dating them. You have to keep making them feel attractive and interested. Fun dates, spontaneous affection, affirming words. Don’t let your long-time SO become your roommate.
I think the biggest thing is just trying to do what you can to maintain your level of sexuality; your performance, and level of drive as you get older…
I feel like people put a lot of emphasis on trying to maintain their appearance, or level of fitness, but do nothing to try and maintain and better the sexual area of their lives…
Both partners need to be comfortable telling the other what works for them, what doesn’t work for them, what they are interested in trying. And just as importantly, both partners need to be able to listen. They might not be interested in all the same things, but they shouldn’t just dismiss the needs and wants of their partner either.
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Communication and not being afraid to explore. Want to explore with me? I’m headed out right now.
Pounding & grounding
Initiative from both partners. I hate to constantly being to one to initiate
Bring them not just to climax but sexual ecstasy. Don’t be selfish. Be willing to explore and try things, taking turns.
Communication, connection, a focus on mutual pleasure and consent.
I think it’s the little rituals. Like how my ex used to press his lips to my forehead every morning before I even opened my eyes. That part? I kinda miss
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Desire and anticipation. When you’re in a relationship for a long time you need to keep your partner feeling desired. You have to keep dating them. You have to keep making them feel attractive and interested. Fun dates, spontaneous affection, affirming words. Don’t let your long-time SO become your roommate.
The Book of Morman
Emotional vulnerability and communication
Pursuing the best versions of yourselves. Continuing to try and be a great catch the other person never wants to lose.
I think the biggest thing is just trying to do what you can to maintain your level of sexuality; your performance, and level of drive as you get older…
I feel like people put a lot of emphasis on trying to maintain their appearance, or level of fitness, but do nothing to try and maintain and better the sexual area of their lives…
Effort and enthusiasm.
Anal
Communication and HONESTY
Communication.
Both partners need to be comfortable telling the other what works for them, what doesn’t work for them, what they are interested in trying. And just as importantly, both partners need to be able to listen. They might not be interested in all the same things, but they shouldn’t just dismiss the needs and wants of their partner either.
Desire and interest. It’s really difficult when it’s consistently one-sided and not reciprocal.
Always eat ass! lol
Communication.
“I’m not into that.”
“Would you be into trying this.”
“Faster… slower… harder… a little to the left…”
100% communication