Body language never lies. You’ll catch them stealing glances when they think you’re not looking or their feet will be pointed towards you in group settings.
You’ll notice by the way they look at you, smile more, or seem really engaged in your conversation. Things like leaning towards you or copying your movements also give it away.
You can tell a lot about how someone feels about you by the position of their feet. For example, if they’re around your ears, you know they like you a lot
As a woman, I have noticed that men that are interested in me/flirting will seem interested in what I’m saying (whether or not they are is a different story) and be more engaged inthe conversation. Though I keep to myself and am not very talkative, so they also appear to find it validating if they can get me to talk to them
For women, repeated glancing is a strong yet subtle sign. Intense eye contact is a pretty direct sign. Close proximity and touch is basically an invitation for boundary pushing.
You can usually tell someone finds you attractive by the little things. They look at you a lot, smile, laugh at your jokes, and try to be around you. They might compliment you or remember random things you’ve said. Sometimes they even get a bit shy or nervous. It’s all in the small stuff.
Men look at my face, look at my breasts, then steady, intense eye contact with a grin.
I’ve noticed women will look me up & down then grab the arm of the man they’re with or get his attention if he’s facing me. Makes me laugh to myself every time.
Lots of things. They stare at you, find reasons to talk to you, laugh at your jokes, even if it’s not that funny. They’ll compliment you too, or always say hi when you pass by.
From a MAN’S PERSPECTIVE it can be very tricky to tell if a woman is interested. Ive had women hang onto to my every word and even come into my personal space socially to be turned down. However, from my experience the telltale signs…..
EYE CONTACT- self explanatory
They will ASK QUESTIONS/SLIP IN A COMPLEMENT: We’ve all been in small talk situations. Ive noticed when you keep it basic; some women will elaborate and slip in a random compliment. The compliment is thrown out there as if to say ” i like you…. what do you like about me…tell me more”
In public…. some will ” circle you like a shark” . You see that same woman in the grocery aisle who gave a little eye contact. She’s placing herself in a position for you to notice her and hopefully talk to her.
Generally, people will bring it up without you doing anything— that is if you are objectively attractive. If someone steal glances from you or pays much more attention to you when in a group, chances are they are attracted to you
I couldn’t tell you what you do experience, but what you don’t as an unattractive woman. I’ve never been sexually harassed. No car horns or hollers when I pass construction sites. When you’re young, men pretend to ask you out as a joke to see if you fall for it, so you learn that all positive comments are insincere. That’s the only way you do get asked out. I’m married and 35 but we met online as teenagers on opposite sides of the world so there was no traditional dating. I’ve never had a wink, a wave, a phone number request, a smile across a room, a drink bought for me or experienced any other kind of flirting. It’s like if life were a video game, you’re playing life on a default non-gendered setting.
People are mostly referring to physical attraction here it seems, but psychological attraction alsonplays a significant role… if they’re attracted to you, they’ll probably show interest.
Last time I was looking at someone that I found physically attractive on top of psychologically attractive I just stared at them often, to observe them. Then she made eye contact; I just snapped “what?” at her in that moment. She said “nothing, you’re looking as well”.
Lots of body language. Like if there are multiple people sitting and they’re sitting closer, facing you, and/or leaning closer to you. Their eyes dilate and they blink less often when looking at you. Their voice is softer or more gentler. Sometimes even speaking slower. They seem to smile more often and would laugh at your jokes even if they’re not that funny. They hear what you have to say without missing much. If you’re talking, it’s like a free excuse to stare at you without seeming creepy/rude. This is for both men and women. Yes, sometimes women want to avoid being creepy. There’s also the quick glances someone else mentions. The looking up and down thing some people do only after they find your face attractive enough. I can list more but this is the gist.
And because this is the internet. Not all of these signs are 100% and not everyone will relate.
As someone who used to get more attention when I was younger, and now notices the deficit, it’s all about… attention.
How long they hold eye contact. Asking questions about you is a big one. Laughing like you’re the funniest person ever. Touching you. Standing closer to you than is socially normal.
Of course, none of these are guaranteed. It could be the way they act towards everyone. Plus these days people in general seem more shy, especially younger people (under 40).
With younger people I have NO CLUE lol. I talked to a girl and got zero vibes. Then a friend said “she liked you.” So I pursued and dated her. But she didn’t give me many vibes that she was actually attracted to me, even tho we had sex!
So sometimes it’s incredibly subtle, and you just have to trust your gut. Or your friends haha!
They laugh at your terrible jokes and remember random details about stuff you mentioned weeks ago. Also they find excuses to initiate physical contact; like touching your arm while laughing or “accidentally” bumping into you
I’ve noticed some strangers drop items they’re holding when they look at you in passing. They just loose focus because they are interested in you and forget to grip their phone, keys, etc.
These threads are always bullshit and subjective to each individual. Ive experienced nearly every example given here and each time have been viciously rejected. But hey, the worst she can say is “no” right? 😂
I grew up anxious with no confidence so never really thought of myself as attractive, as the years went on perhaps I’ve grown more confident and this can also add to attraction
As a guy, I see women’s glances linger longer initially or a double take. They laugh more at what I say. They brush their hair back, twitch their body in some way, or fiddle with something.
I mostly ignore them because I’m in a relationship with my favorite woman already but sometimes I’ll engage them with the slightest flirting when I’m with my girlfriend to let her know she needs to stay on business because they are out there waiting still.
Men usually tell me that they like me, they want to fuck me or they have a crush on me. It’s straight forward. For me I don’t pay much attention to body language coming from men. I don’t assume it is not safe lol if you’re unsure just ask.
My crush is a master sneaky fox. Lol. He seemed to be not interested at all but he remembered EVERY detail about me. Especially my phisique. Exact eye color, visible moles, details, clothes. Everything I said to him ever. He is cautious af, but I noticed strange hestiations when we talk. That is what I observed. He found some stupid excuses to contact me to help him with trouble. Now as thank you for my help he is inviting me for a weekend where he lives, as he says, it ins nice tourist town. Oh yeah my boy, is it? Well we will see… 2 days you said?… What about night in between 😆
I’m a woman and if I find a man attractive, I become all shy and avoid eye contact. If I do make eye contact, my face turns so red like a tomato. If he talks to me, either my brain goes blank or I say something stupid or trip over my words.
If I see a woman that is attractive, I don’t mean that I fancy her but admire her good looks, the way she dresses etc, I will look at her, smile and compliment her.
Well, for me, I usually find out weeks, months and even years too late. All those signs that are blatantly obvious to me now, weren’t back then. Missed out on some right good chances too 😔
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You might get a few unexpected compliments
Never have
Body language never lies. You’ll catch them stealing glances when they think you’re not looking or their feet will be pointed towards you in group settings.
They take interest in what you have to say
Their behaviour changes in subtle ways with you vs with other people who they don’t necessarily find attractive
You get looked at more, lots of double takes and stuff
I’m not attractive so they will not.
You’ll wanna watch this OP
When someone’s into you, they’ll sneak those quick little glances—just a second of eye contact before looking away. Classic “stealing glances” move.
They’ll also react more to what you say—like laughing at something that isn’t even that funny, just to grab your attention.
It’s all in the body language and behavior, baby.
When they compliment me
You’ll notice by the way they look at you, smile more, or seem really engaged in your conversation. Things like leaning towards you or copying your movements also give it away.
I can never tell until I’ve gotten myself into an uncomfy situation
Couldn’t say. I like to think I’m oblivious, but I’m quite aware no one has been attracted to me.
It’s not a fail safe method, but usually if they act a certain way and look at me a certain way, there’s something there…
I don’t think it’s ever happened so I have no idea.
When you get nudes without asking
Prolonged eye contact
When she wakes up in my bed naked. With that JBF hairstyle (Just been fucked)
Not only do they look at your more, but they will touch themselves more when they are engaging with you. Their face, hair, maybe rubbing their thighs
They give you the Long Eye, and keep giving it.
They give you their attention
When your receive a compliments from them
You can tell a lot about how someone feels about you by the position of their feet. For example, if they’re around your ears, you know they like you a lot
Lingering eyes
damn reading all these comments made me realize im not😭 cuz none of it happened to me
They keep talking to you and won’t shut up.
Eye contact.
As a woman, I have noticed that men that are interested in me/flirting will seem interested in what I’m saying (whether or not they are is a different story) and be more engaged inthe conversation. Though I keep to myself and am not very talkative, so they also appear to find it validating if they can get me to talk to them
I never knew and never will.
No one ever found me attractive ever! So, I don’t know.
For me usually its the repeated eye-contact. Might be my delusion as well:D
For women, repeated glancing is a strong yet subtle sign. Intense eye contact is a pretty direct sign. Close proximity and touch is basically an invitation for boundary pushing.
I have a hard time with this but the one thing that gives it away is they look at you a lot. You can almost feel their gaze on you.
I think after 40 people find me attractive 🙂
They talk to me for no sensible reason and keep coming up with new topics of discussion as we speak
You can usually tell someone finds you attractive by the little things. They look at you a lot, smile, laugh at your jokes, and try to be around you. They might compliment you or remember random things you’ve said. Sometimes they even get a bit shy or nervous. It’s all in the small stuff.
Not qualified to answer 😕
Those that have no interest or chance of pursuing a relationship with you will straight up tell you. Like a random old lady / man.
Otherwise they keep looking at you, and you get 110% of their attention when you’re speaking.
They tell you.
Welcome to the rainforest…
Because they’re reading this right now
Men look at my face, look at my breasts, then steady, intense eye contact with a grin.
I’ve noticed women will look me up & down then grab the arm of the man they’re with or get his attention if he’s facing me. Makes me laugh to myself every time.
I wouldn’t know.
They’ll tell you.
Do kids call you ugly? No? Well that’s a good start
Lots of things. They stare at you, find reasons to talk to you, laugh at your jokes, even if it’s not that funny. They’ll compliment you too, or always say hi when you pass by.
From a MAN’S PERSPECTIVE it can be very tricky to tell if a woman is interested. Ive had women hang onto to my every word and even come into my personal space socially to be turned down. However, from my experience the telltale signs…..
EYE CONTACT- self explanatory
They will ASK QUESTIONS/SLIP IN A COMPLEMENT: We’ve all been in small talk situations. Ive noticed when you keep it basic; some women will elaborate and slip in a random compliment. The compliment is thrown out there as if to say ” i like you…. what do you like about me…tell me more”
In public…. some will ” circle you like a shark” . You see that same woman in the grocery aisle who gave a little eye contact. She’s placing herself in a position for you to notice her and hopefully talk to her.
I got a double take the other day. Made my fucking day.
Eye contact. The fuck me eyes never lie.
Generally, people will bring it up without you doing anything— that is if you are objectively attractive. If someone steal glances from you or pays much more attention to you when in a group, chances are they are attracted to you
lots of eye contact, body language will be facing you, playing with hair or some kinda fidgeting when you talk, laughing, etc
it’s pretty obvious
If a woman is really into you, she won’t be able to leave her hair alone.
Definitely there has eye contact.
Compliments and laughing at your jokes
I couldn’t tell you what you do experience, but what you don’t as an unattractive woman. I’ve never been sexually harassed. No car horns or hollers when I pass construction sites. When you’re young, men pretend to ask you out as a joke to see if you fall for it, so you learn that all positive comments are insincere. That’s the only way you do get asked out. I’m married and 35 but we met online as teenagers on opposite sides of the world so there was no traditional dating. I’ve never had a wink, a wave, a phone number request, a smile across a room, a drink bought for me or experienced any other kind of flirting. It’s like if life were a video game, you’re playing life on a default non-gendered setting.
People are mostly referring to physical attraction here it seems, but psychological attraction alsonplays a significant role… if they’re attracted to you, they’ll probably show interest.
Last time I was looking at someone that I found physically attractive on top of psychologically attractive I just stared at them often, to observe them. Then she made eye contact; I just snapped “what?” at her in that moment. She said “nothing, you’re looking as well”.
The way they look at you
Lots of body language. Like if there are multiple people sitting and they’re sitting closer, facing you, and/or leaning closer to you. Their eyes dilate and they blink less often when looking at you. Their voice is softer or more gentler. Sometimes even speaking slower. They seem to smile more often and would laugh at your jokes even if they’re not that funny. They hear what you have to say without missing much. If you’re talking, it’s like a free excuse to stare at you without seeming creepy/rude. This is for both men and women. Yes, sometimes women want to avoid being creepy. There’s also the quick glances someone else mentions. The looking up and down thing some people do only after they find your face attractive enough. I can list more but this is the gist.
And because this is the internet. Not all of these signs are 100% and not everyone will relate.
They try to be around you , you can feel sense of eagerness in everything .
As someone who used to get more attention when I was younger, and now notices the deficit, it’s all about… attention.
How long they hold eye contact. Asking questions about you is a big one. Laughing like you’re the funniest person ever. Touching you. Standing closer to you than is socially normal.
Of course, none of these are guaranteed. It could be the way they act towards everyone. Plus these days people in general seem more shy, especially younger people (under 40).
With younger people I have NO CLUE lol. I talked to a girl and got zero vibes. Then a friend said “she liked you.” So I pursued and dated her. But she didn’t give me many vibes that she was actually attracted to me, even tho we had sex!
So sometimes it’s incredibly subtle, and you just have to trust your gut. Or your friends haha!
If they keep sneaking glances at you.
They’ll tell you verbally lol
There is no real way to tell. I mean, you can never be sure…
They laugh at your terrible jokes and remember random details about stuff you mentioned weeks ago. Also they find excuses to initiate physical contact; like touching your arm while laughing or “accidentally” bumping into you
Stares at you… then makes an excuse to come talk to you. Guy in my local supermarket. I smiled at him – he went red.
My rule of thumb when I was younger was that if I add them on facebook and they’re the one to initiate the conversation, there’s something there
I’ve noticed some strangers drop items they’re holding when they look at you in passing. They just loose focus because they are interested in you and forget to grip their phone, keys, etc.
These threads are always bullshit and subjective to each individual. Ive experienced nearly every example given here and each time have been viciously rejected. But hey, the worst she can say is “no” right? 😂
I grew up anxious with no confidence so never really thought of myself as attractive, as the years went on perhaps I’ve grown more confident and this can also add to attraction
As a guy, I see women’s glances linger longer initially or a double take. They laugh more at what I say. They brush their hair back, twitch their body in some way, or fiddle with something.
I mostly ignore them because I’m in a relationship with my favorite woman already but sometimes I’ll engage them with the slightest flirting when I’m with my girlfriend to let her know she needs to stay on business because they are out there waiting still.
Hard to say. Because experience has taught me that I’m not really attractive to anyone.
Their pupils will dilate when they see you.
You get stared at alot
I had a colleague once whisper in my ear to come with her, after we had a beer in a pub.
That was a sign. Some women are more subtle but I prefer the direct type.
They smile, stare at you a lot and compliment you or find reasons to talk to you.
Men usually tell me that they like me, they want to fuck me or they have a crush on me. It’s straight forward. For me I don’t pay much attention to body language coming from men. I don’t assume it is not safe lol if you’re unsure just ask.
They try to maintain eye contact and remember small details.
It’s like breathing, you just know.
I hope not. Otherwise, it simply hasn’t happened yet.
When they come to me and say I like you or wanna have a drink. I’m very bad with hints.
Creepy stares if it’s a stranger. If it’s someone known … Trying for body contact. Attempts to be alone.
My crush is a master sneaky fox. Lol. He seemed to be not interested at all but he remembered EVERY detail about me. Especially my phisique. Exact eye color, visible moles, details, clothes. Everything I said to him ever. He is cautious af, but I noticed strange hestiations when we talk. That is what I observed. He found some stupid excuses to contact me to help him with trouble. Now as thank you for my help he is inviting me for a weekend where he lives, as he says, it ins nice tourist town. Oh yeah my boy, is it? Well we will see… 2 days you said?… What about night in between 😆
I’m a woman and if I find a man attractive, I become all shy and avoid eye contact. If I do make eye contact, my face turns so red like a tomato. If he talks to me, either my brain goes blank or I say something stupid or trip over my words.
If I see a woman that is attractive, I don’t mean that I fancy her but admire her good looks, the way she dresses etc, I will look at her, smile and compliment her.
Well, for me, I usually find out weeks, months and even years too late. All those signs that are blatantly obvious to me now, weren’t back then. Missed out on some right good chances too 😔
They look at you generally. Lots of people look at you
They will let you know.
I can only tell that women don’t find me attractive.