My boyfriend (26yo) has been extremely controlling and manipulative for years and I’ve (26yo) had enough. He doesn’t have a job, will not get one and is addicted to all kinds of drugs. He leaves every Friday night and will not come home until Sunday, completely wasted to sleep for 48h. Yet he expects me to “understand his addiction” and help him out. I’ve tried. Multiple times. It just doesn’t work. He’s been extremely abusive (verbally) and has threatened to kill me multiple times while on drugs. He thinks I’ll marry him and have kids with someone like him. What an idiot.
The lease is in my name. I’m looking for an apartment now to move out asap. Once I find one, I will wait until he gets waisted again so I’ll know I have a day or two to move out my furniture and all on my stuff. I’ll block him and change my phone number. For now, I’m making it seem like nothings wrong and trying not to “trigger him” into abusing me (yeah, he says I trigger him when I tell him to get help). WTF is wrong with people.
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Happy you are getting out of this relationship op. I recommend looking into therapy!
What are you going to do about the apartment since it’s in your name?
No one deserves to live in fear, and you deserve peace, respect, and love. Keep putting yourself first you’ve got this.
leave as safely as possible, but yes – leave however works best for you!
but it’s so awesome to see that you’re taking yourself out. on to better things for you!