We broke up a while ago but I still check her facebook account to see what she’s up to and how she looks. I’ve definitely had some inappropriate thoughts when I’ve been alone about her. I don’t know if I really miss her or just miss being in bed with her.
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This sounds like a classic case of post-breakup limbo. The Facebook stalking is normal (we’ve all been there), but the fixation might mean you’re still holding onto something—whether it’s her or just the comfort of that past intimacy.
If you’re questioning whether it’s her you miss or just the physical connection, try this: imagine her with all her flaws, quirks, and the reasons you broke up. Does that thought still pull you in, or does it feel more like nostalgia for the good times?
Either way, it might be time to mute her profile for a bit. Out of sight doesn’t always mean out of mind, but it gives you space to figure out what you actually want…