How often do you feel guilty after masturbating?

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How often do you feel guilty after masturbating?

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  1. whiskanno Avatar

    Literally never. Not an ounce

  2. Bottlecollecter Avatar

    Are you supposed to?

  3. LucyVialli Avatar

    That has never happened in my entire life.

  4. Chairboy Avatar

    Never? Can’t think of a reason to, at least not a reason that makes any sense. I get that some people do because they’ve been conditioned through religion or shame-culture but ¯_(ツ)_/¯

  5. sillyguy221 Avatar

    Not since I was young. No guilt now. Just pleasure

  6. Big_Presentation2786 Avatar

    Only after I’ve seen your parents doing it

  7. xFelia Avatar

    Guilt only sets in when I realize I’ve done it longer than I meant to… and now I’m late for something.

  8. romacopia Avatar

    Never. Go to therapy or read some help books.

  9. BaconHammer9000 Avatar

    never! why should i? lol

  10. montecarlo92 Avatar

    Guilt? No. Disgust? Absolutely.

  11. Both-Holiday1489 Avatar

    never

    i think everyone has had a not proud fap moment

  12. driftingdrifblim Avatar

    Only if I edge and waste a bunch of time

  13. man_with_a_brain Avatar

    no more because I stopped 😊

  14. IntelligentPast839 Avatar

    Pretty often, but only due to religious reasons.

  15. hiYeendog Avatar

    Yo what the fuck are these questions

  16. BernieMcBurnerson Avatar

    No shame in my game

  17. westboundblonde Avatar

    Sometimes only because I’m like what the fuck did I just watch/read and got off to 😅 but then I do it again so….

  18. Nessosin Avatar

    Never. What is there to feel guilty about?

  19. SaveFerrisBrother Avatar

    Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s!

  20. NoTelephone6765 Avatar

    Never. I do at least once a day and never feel guilty, the only feeling I have is I want more. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  21. MagicianCharacter666 Avatar

    I feel guilty I immediately dismiss the emotional or conscious attachment to the experience right after

  22. Express_Upstairs2625 Avatar

    I’m the best I’ve ever had

  23. lovealert911 Avatar

    About as much as I feel guilty about other personal urges such as eating when hungry, sleeping when tired, and drinking when thirsty. Masturbating when horny isn’t anything one should feel guilty about.

    You’re not hurting anyone. You’re taking care of yourself and your own urge.

  24. MyMuselsAMeanDrunk Avatar

    I never feel guilty for masturbating as much as I feel guilty about all the texts I sent while I was.

  25. itch_the_bitch Avatar

    Always. I don’t know why

  26. M1ssUsed Avatar

    Now that I’m grown up, never

  27. Ok_Respect9035 Avatar

    Sometimes because I still live with my parents, and I fear that they’ll notice my night time routine someday

  28. RainbowSprinklesYay Avatar

    Nope. What I do with my own body in the privacy of my own home is nobody else’s damn business. I used to feel guilty as a teenager because I was taught that god was watching and judging everything I did. If I could go back in time, I’d tell that teenage girl that even if that god was real, he’s the pervert who’s spying on an underage girl and therefore he’s the only one who should feel guilty.

  29. sitophilicsquirrel Avatar

    Only when I’m indulging in some of the more depraved fetishes like bdsm. When it’s happy vanilla stuff I feel totally within my conscience comfort zone.

  30. Highrise_Lowrise Avatar

    Why should I feel guilty? I mean hell, it’s HEALTHY to masturbate. Just don’t go for round 10 in one day. Moderation

  31. X_dark-X-wolf-17_X Avatar
  32. Briffy03 Avatar

    Why would you even feel guilty? I feel relieved, stress is lower and concentration is now higher, i can finally focus on what i do now and not on the random booteh that made me twitch down there 5min before

  33. etherealcaitiff Avatar

    Never. Prostate cancer is common in my family. I’m doing my part to be healthy.

  34. Dishonest_Psychology Avatar

    Never. It’s your own body and there is no reason to feel guilty or shameful for exploring it.

  35. bophed Avatar

    Nope, it is a natural thing to do.

  36. GettnRandy Avatar

    I was 20 years old or so when I first tried masturbation. I did feel guilty at first, because for the longest time I was told that stuff was bad. It wasn’t even a religious thing, my parent just felt like such things are inappropriate and raised me that way. I was lucky enough to not have urges for my entire life until that point. I was what one would consider asexual for my early life, which helped me not disappoint my parent, lmao.

    One day, I did it out of curiosity, and it took a few times to get rid of the stigma attached to it and learn to enjoy it.

    Now, sixteen years later, I am a proud wet floor sign-fucker. The guilt is gone, and I have even found my special kink.

  37. Sushibot_92 Avatar

    I can 🥊 🍖 4-5 times a day and not feel bad at all because my wife is good to go after 1 or 2 sessions so I’m not really holding anything back from her

  38. AI-Mods-Blow Avatar

    Only once, I was in bed, woke up early, and polishing the knob into a sock. Wife sleeping next to me and when I came it went right through a small hole in the sock and all over my wife’s face.. and she would not believe it was an accident, was too perfectly right in her face.. I was jerking it in the doghouse for a bit after that.

  39. suzy-q-123 Avatar

    Never. 🤷‍♀️

  40. Krimzon94 Avatar

    Honestly, the only time I can think is when I’ve done it while my partner is in the house. I would rather involve her in it, but when she turns it down 9 times out of 10, you eventually learn to just deal with it yourself.

  41. Crafty-Version2434 Avatar

    Guilt and disgust all day baby!

  42. happiestgirlievernew Avatar

    Every time. #catholicgirlproblems

  43. JiminyJilickers-79 Avatar

    Were you raised in a religious household? You shouldn’t feel guilty about it. I’d guess masturbation was associated with shame in your upbringing.

  44. Master-T-bone Avatar

    When I was 12 I think I felt guilty the first time or two. Now at 59 years old not at all

  45. Spiritual_Yak1 Avatar

    Never
    It’s a great stress reliever and it’s needed… ok I’m stressed now 😆

  46. tgarvin35 Avatar

    A lot of you clearly didn’t have to grow up in purity culture. Shame and guilt was so connected to anything sexual. And when you’re taught that from an early age, it takes a fuck ton of work to unlearn it.

  47. noom_nam_dam Avatar

    Never. Wish I had someone to do it with.

  48. No_Nectarine6942 Avatar

    When they say they had better.

  49. VanillaBear321 Avatar

    Literally never. I can’t even fathom what there could be to feel guilty about?

  50. AcrobaticRoof5721 Avatar

    I was raised catholic- guilt is the MO 😂

  51. funlovers2 Avatar

    Never. Ever. Never ever.

  52. jma7400 Avatar

    Why would you feel guilty? It’s human nature.

  53. IchMochteAllesHaben Avatar

    Never. I’m not 13 anymore🤣
    Is a healthy practice, don’t ever feel guilty

  54. ForwardSort5306 Avatar

    I learned to love myself, I deserve to let a little bit of steam out every now and then.

    Any shame i had left disappeared when I bought my first toy lol

  55. lilcuteflower Avatar

    why i should feel guilty to make myself happy and relaxed?

  56. Unlikely-Rip-6197 Avatar

    Like another person said, guilt? No. Disgust? Yes!

    After 5-10 minutes, I’m usually okay. After 2-3-4 hours of not finding what I “like”, usually feeling very disgusted. But, I have to finish the mission…

  57. No_Blackberry_3319 Avatar

    I was scared when I first touched myself but I had to. My clit was so full of sexual tension. I thought I ruined my life. I woke up and my orgasm never went away. I’m a christian and I ended up being mad at god because of too much confusion why he gave me permanent orgasm.

  58. Simbakim Avatar

    Lol is that a thing?

  59. Savage_Saint00 Avatar

    Never. I only feel guilty for not having a partner to help me that instance.

  60. bcredfie Avatar

    Depends on what I masterbate too? If it’s something that I think could cause problems in a relationship, I think it’s sensible to feel guilty…

  61. bella-grace- Avatar

    Feel guilty? Never!!

  62. BoxWooden4529 Avatar

    Never. Why would I?

  63. JellyboyJangleDangle Avatar

    Not that often, I always wipe it off before she wakes up…

  64. Iggypothead Avatar

    When I first started at 12 I felt like I was molesting myself. Got over it though 😎

  65. KittenSonyeondan Avatar

    Depends on the situation tbh but very rarely

  66. Jalapeno-hands Avatar

    Too old to feel guilty about it anymore.

  67. Xplatos Avatar

    That’s just your brain getting a huge dose of endorphins all of a sudden and then stopping. It’s not that you feel guilty it’s just that your brain is realizing this is how you normally feel. Kinda like analyzing it I guess.

  68. Beeeeater Avatar

    Never, I believe it is good for my health.

  69. largeblackdude Avatar

    i’m a christian so pretty much every time. it’s not so the act that makes me feel guilty but the thoughts that accompany it

  70. DryHamster4570 Avatar

    Never, why would I?

  71. AquaticTrashman123 Avatar

    If you’re not feeling like a despicable lil pig every time you’re doing it wrong

  72. Hashashin455 Avatar

    Depends on what you’re masturbating to

  73. Agreeable-Cup2145 Avatar

    Never. I feel worse to neglect masturbation.

  74. cys1 Avatar

    Only when I do it a day before a date, just kinda feels like I should’ve let it build up a lil you know lol

  75. Difficult_Relative33 Avatar

    When I’m on the bus, it’s 50/50

  76. Bright_Picture7811 Avatar

    Almost every time if I do it often enough.

  77. curtiss_mac Avatar

    Never, because I only look at photos of my man.

  78. ya_boi_A1excat Avatar

    I have an odd and specific answer for this odd question.

    I use to get this, and what I found out later was I’m plural. I doubt this is the case for you, or anything close, but when co-fronting (for us) often the system member not masturbating usually feels some sort of discomfort. ‘guilt’, I suppose, is a way it could be put.

  79. himmyyyyy Avatar

    i’m leaving this fucking dogshit subreddit all you weirdos do is ask dumb shit like this

  80. -TittyFuck3r_ Avatar

    Post nut clarity is a bitch.

  81. CaregiverNo4109 Avatar

    I only feel guilty afterwards if I realize I was being loud!

  82. AshvstheWalkingDead Avatar

    Never. Its a completely natural thing.

  83. David-streets Avatar

    Never in my life.

  84. MAGAsareperverts Avatar

    Never. Although I do sometimes like to laugh at the people on r/nofap who think their lives are ruined because they looked at a boob.

  85. FuujinSama Avatar

    Eh? When I do it to procrastinate on something important? But I feel guilty about the procrastination not the masturbation.

  86. HungryFollowing8909 Avatar

    Stop getting caught with the vacuum, you won’t feel guilty.

  87. mysticaltater Avatar

    EVERY SINGLE TIME BAYBEE 🤙 im trying to train my body to not want it at all. ive only ever been 1-2x a month but that’s way too much for me (or in general?) 

  88. Icy_Plan6888 Avatar

    Wait…there’s guilt with it? I only feel guilty if I don’t hand her a tissue.

  89. brute141 Avatar

    Everytime, mostly bc I’m pleasure seeking

  90. weaselkeeper Avatar

    0.0% of the time.

  91. Turbulent-Listen2240 Avatar

    I don’t feel “guilty” like i’m doing something bad or that I’m not supposed to. But I usually just get a few moments of being grossed out like “i’m disgusting, sex is disgusting, men like me are horny pigs”. Shortly after I stop caring and move on.

  92. PenRude1788 Avatar

    the more i do it, the more i feel guilty. It’s a weird feeling after pleasure tbh

  93. FestusPowerLoL Avatar

    I didn’t know that was a thing people had.

  94. Dame87 Avatar

    Depends if I get caught

  95. Important_Tough_8660 Avatar

    Never because I do only 1 Month 1 Time, the Date is 15 of every Month

  96. Prestigious_Ninja353 Avatar

    Quite often actually and I’m not sure why. I know it’s a healthy thing to do and it’s not overwhelming amount of guilt but it lingers.

  97. Beardskull717 Avatar

    Never, my body my fun.

  98. Dalyall Avatar

    Not even once

  99. dr_reverend Avatar

    I feel guilty when I’m not masturbating.

  100. IamYouAreWeUs Avatar

    Never, why would you?

  101. calvin-not-Hobbes Avatar

    Only after they tell me to leave Ikea.

  102. GrahamEcward Avatar

    2-3 times a day, after every incident.

  103. AxCapitan Avatar

    Like, every time I am finishing with it. I have no idea why but it feels so wrong couple of minutes

  104. transonicgenie6 Avatar

    Never tbh 👍🏼

  105. Razoras Avatar

    Never in 30 years of doing it.

  106. _without-a-trace_ Avatar

    Only if doing it when I should be doing something else.

  107. kreuger44 Avatar

    What’s up with all these sexual questions on this subreddit..?

  108. femalevirginpervert Avatar

    Never lmao. When I was younger I did

  109. sadxmamiii Avatar

    I did when I was younger but now i just don’t give a fuck lol get my nut and move on with my day

  110. e79683074 Avatar

    Never. Why would I be? It’s physical relief when needed and it’s fun. Nobody’s hurt.

    Do you feel guilty after a good shit?

  111. daniel_san_ Avatar

    Were you raised in an evangelical household? (serious)

  112. This_Witness4302 Avatar

    Yahusha is Yahuah

  113. SelfImmolationsHell Avatar

    Only if it makes me late for something

  114. OptimisticSensual83 Avatar

    Well, there was this time at a funeral home…

  115. mrbrianstyles Avatar

    Masturbating has often saved people’s lives. Post-nut clarity is a real thing.

  116. SquareFix4191 Avatar

    A bit, must be religion honestly

  117. blue-white-dragon2 Avatar

    Why should you feel guilt or shame unless it’s Nov 1 – and just before Dec 1

  118. Piemaster113 Avatar

    Depends where I am and what I am masturbating to.

  119. mayormcskeeze Avatar

    Time for you to move on from the incel sigma no fap Andrew tate garbage dude.

  120. AcademicAccountant26 Avatar

    depends on what i watch lol

  121. Ryy4 Avatar

    Depends on the material used

  122. o-0-o-0-o Avatar

    Develop shame kink; use post nut guilt for round 2

  123. PthahloPheasant Avatar

    I’m helping me, everyone else that tries to guilt me because of that can F off. OP, your body, your right, your happiness.

  124. Actual-Ranger-5133 Avatar

    Never. My family, despite being very religious, was extremely sex-positive. They encouraged it.

  125. amourtxoxo Avatar

    When i was religious i felt guilty but now i am an agnostic so big no
    I think it’s because of religion society etc