When I was a teen, a lot of guys had a problem using body sprays to mask their body odors. Fellas we would rather smell a little sweat then whatever the hell “smokey mountain brisket” is
When their voice cracks mid-sentence, most girls either don’t notice or find it kinda cute. Meanwhile, the guy’s internally spiraling like he just ruined his entire reputation.
Having hobbies! Growing up a lot of guys would try to act “cool” and their hobbies were things like basketball or playing video games. Those are fine too, but also love when yall have niche hobbies (woodworking, gardening, board games, trivia nights, Pokémon, etc). It means you’re an interesting person and that we will have stuff to talk about!
When your wife praises the handyman’s skills and notes how the husband isn’t good with such things. To the wife it is just small talk, to the husband it is like the wife is both flirting and putting her husband down right in front of him.
I think most times it was said to be “funny” but it used to annoy the hell out of me when guys would say “No homo” when describing a behavior that might be considered more “feminine” or “gay”
Not once in my mind did I think you were gay or what you said/were doing was “gay”. Stop that. 💀
When a woman in their family accidentally calls them a baby name. I think it shows they have women who care about them and may have taught them about women. Unless its their mother constantly calling them a baby name, that gets weird after awhile and usually signifies the opposite
To every woman here who craves emotional vulnerability, the reason some men will never be vulnerable ever again is….. another woman who liked her man being vulnerable.
1.) Dick shrinkage due to cold. It’s supposed to do that!! No need to feel insecure. 🙂 We know it’s still the same size we already liked.
2.) Passing gas. It might have embarrassed you on a date, but the right woman truly gives zero fucks. No point in holding that in. Just don’t cropdust us or pollute the car ride home, and we’re good! Lol
3.) Spontaneous erections. Again, the male anatomy was designed for this. We know you can’t help it. Morning wood is inevitable. No big deal. Just don’t be a dick by expecting sex on the spot or something. If you chub at 3am, I’m still sleeping, sorry! Lol
(Additionally, the loss of erection during intimacy is also not a big deal!! It happens.)
4.) Pornography. This is debatable in some relationships, but in a healthy romance, it doesn’t have to be an issue. Moderation is key. Watching it together can also spice things up. All in all, discuss those preferences early on so everyone is on the same page. Also keep your shit legal and don’t be sending/getting nudes from people. Be reasonable and communicate.
5.) Height or weight variation. Lots of us have preferences, but don’t assume we don’t dig you just because you’re shorter or thicker than someone else. Men come in all types of variations. Your insecurity is another person’s kink!! Keep searching for that match. 🙂
Not being confrontational/a fighter. I’ve had to specify that I don’t like it all. Unless someone is in danger, please do not fight someone, especially not to defend my ‘honor’. If you fight someone and fucking die over them calling me cute I will be traumatized.
I had mates that hated being seen dancing or singing, especially in public they always be thinking it’s embarrassing, but most girls don’t really care and alot of the time think its cute
Having feelings. Although i wouldnt say i dont care about it, because i care quite alot. But i wish males didnt feel embarassment or shame when it comes to having emotions.
Height. Long time ago, I met a guy on the beach. He approached me while I was snoozing on my beach blanket. We talked for quite some time and when we both stood up I noticed he was about 2″ shorter than me. So I said, ‘I’m taller than you, do you care?’ He said, ‘I don’t care if YOU don’t’. He got my number, we wound up dating and then living together, we were a couple for 5 years. Best relationship I ever had, hands down.
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Shitting your pants
Hairy nipples
Crying in public
When I was a teen, a lot of guys had a problem using body sprays to mask their body odors. Fellas we would rather smell a little sweat then whatever the hell “smokey mountain brisket” is
Beer-Bellies and Dad-Bods
Chest hair. Yeah you look like a fucking rug but a rug I’d fuck come here carpet boy
Feeling emotionally.. and crying. I do not care share how you’re feeling you’re a human too ❤️
Expressing vulnerability.
Voice cracks. Guys act like they’ve committed a social crime, but most girls don’t even blink
It’s so cute so many people are mentioning having emotions, feel that shit guys and let us know! You’re a human and we love seeing that side:)
Getting bald.
When their voice cracks mid-sentence, most girls either don’t notice or find it kinda cute. Meanwhile, the guy’s internally spiraling like he just ruined his entire reputation.
I may be alone in this view, but being short and/or geeky. Short, geeky guys are hot!
Being silly, ditzy, clumsy, slightly undignified. I think when we’re young that feels like the end of the world, but it’s mostly neutral or endearing.
ED, body hair.
Having hobbies! Growing up a lot of guys would try to act “cool” and their hobbies were things like basketball or playing video games. Those are fine too, but also love when yall have niche hobbies (woodworking, gardening, board games, trivia nights, Pokémon, etc). It means you’re an interesting person and that we will have stuff to talk about!
When your wife praises the handyman’s skills and notes how the husband isn’t good with such things. To the wife it is just small talk, to the husband it is like the wife is both flirting and putting her husband down right in front of him.
Penis size. I hope. Or maybe girls do really care about it, and I was right to be self conscious this whole time.
Colors of clothing, you want to wear pastels and floral patterns GO FOR IT.
Their bellies for sure
Calling adults boys or girls
I think most times it was said to be “funny” but it used to annoy the hell out of me when guys would say “No homo” when describing a behavior that might be considered more “feminine” or “gay”
Not once in my mind did I think you were gay or what you said/were doing was “gay”. Stop that. 💀
Nothing. Women are always judging guys, even for their good qualities (which are somehow never good enough).
When a woman in their family accidentally calls them a baby name. I think it shows they have women who care about them and may have taught them about women. Unless its their mother constantly calling them a baby name, that gets weird after awhile and usually signifies the opposite
To every woman here who craves emotional vulnerability, the reason some men will never be vulnerable ever again is….. another woman who liked her man being vulnerable.
crying
idgaf abt receding hairline yesss lemme look at myself in that reflection
Buying Tampons? Lots of boys, and even many men would rather die than buy tampons.
Farting. It happens. I don’t care about your farts if you don’t care about mine. 🤷🏻♀️ Just be polite and crack a window or whatever and we cool.
Penis size for sure.
1.) Dick shrinkage due to cold. It’s supposed to do that!! No need to feel insecure. 🙂 We know it’s still the same size we already liked.
2.) Passing gas. It might have embarrassed you on a date, but the right woman truly gives zero fucks. No point in holding that in. Just don’t cropdust us or pollute the car ride home, and we’re good! Lol
3.) Spontaneous erections. Again, the male anatomy was designed for this. We know you can’t help it. Morning wood is inevitable. No big deal. Just don’t be a dick by expecting sex on the spot or something. If you chub at 3am, I’m still sleeping, sorry! Lol
(Additionally, the loss of erection during intimacy is also not a big deal!! It happens.)
4.) Pornography. This is debatable in some relationships, but in a healthy romance, it doesn’t have to be an issue. Moderation is key. Watching it together can also spice things up. All in all, discuss those preferences early on so everyone is on the same page. Also keep your shit legal and don’t be sending/getting nudes from people. Be reasonable and communicate.
5.) Height or weight variation. Lots of us have preferences, but don’t assume we don’t dig you just because you’re shorter or thicker than someone else. Men come in all types of variations. Your insecurity is another person’s kink!! Keep searching for that match. 🙂
Hope this helps!
Farting 🤣
being skinny /or not muscular
The amount of guys convinced that girls only like ripped dudes is crazy to me. Gym bros are only impressing EACHOTHER
Skinny men. You don’t have to be ripped to be hot.
Honestly, maybe not every girl will agree, but coming too fast. It’s a compliment, I can’t imagine being disappointed over it.
Being affectionate with same sex friends.
Expressing your feelings toward us lol i save every sweet message i get from my bf bc it’s special to me and makes me feel loved
Penis size
Making noise in bed!!!
Not being confrontational/a fighter. I’ve had to specify that I don’t like it all. Unless someone is in danger, please do not fight someone, especially not to defend my ‘honor’. If you fight someone and fucking die over them calling me cute I will be traumatized.
Really depends on the quality of the girl.
My wife would shame just about every answer in this thread except muscularity. She doesn’t seem to care about that.
I had mates that hated being seen dancing or singing, especially in public they always be thinking it’s embarrassing, but most girls don’t really care and alot of the time think its cute
my friends don’t care how tall a guy is as long as he’s like at least around their height
Having feelings. Although i wouldnt say i dont care about it, because i care quite alot. But i wish males didnt feel embarassment or shame when it comes to having emotions.
Balding. It’s cute. Let me lovingly comb your hairline into different shapes. Shave it all and let me run my fingers over the stubble.
All my girlies are either balding indifferent, or balding fans. Just look at what’s happened to Walton Goggins 😋
You hear a lot about how all women want a 6’2 Chad who makes 6 figures, but I think most girls are perfectly happy with “average” guys.
A good personality can go a long way when it comes to attractiveness.
Height. Long time ago, I met a guy on the beach. He approached me while I was snoozing on my beach blanket. We talked for quite some time and when we both stood up I noticed he was about 2″ shorter than me. So I said, ‘I’m taller than you, do you care?’ He said, ‘I don’t care if YOU don’t’. He got my number, we wound up dating and then living together, we were a couple for 5 years. Best relationship I ever had, hands down.
Getting emotionally choked up over a movie
Not looking like a gym bro and having obvious muscles.
My fiance is not a gym bro and he doesn’t have the stereotypical bodybuilder muscles, but he’s a very strong and competent judoka.
He’s strong in his own way and that’s what’s important to me.