I live in Denmark which is a very lonely and socially isolating country. We have very few sunshine hours, don’t see the sun for 7-8 months, the weather sucks, and there is not much to do besides staying indoors, since we don’t really have any nature at all. We also suck at socializing and have among the highest loneliness rates in Europe.
I would personally have gone my entire adult life without a single human touch if not for escorts. They saved me from brutal depression. Like, I wouldn’t even as much as have physically touched another human being if not for them, except for the occasional handshake, I don’t even get any hugs. Besides, it is very physically healthy to have sex (lowers cortisol) and also good for one’s mental health. As an incel I have not had much luck with women, but now I just don’t care. I can’t tell myself “Oh I will get a girlfriend by 30”, because I might as well be dead by then, accidents happen all the time. My classmate died in a car accident at 17 and I am sure he didn’t expect to be dead by now. Sex is so amazing and such a vital part of the human experience that I cannot put myself in a situation where I would postpone joy, when I know I am not guaranteed tomorrow. I still put $2.5K in the Nasdaq 100 every month though because I do hope to see it.
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Hey, it sounds like you’re really self-aware and doing what you feel you need to do to cope with loneliness in a tough environment. It’s good that you’re also being responsible with your finances and taking care of your mental health. Just make sure you’re also finding ways to connect socially or emotionally too even small steps can make a difference long-term.
What’s your job?
Cheaper than dating if you ask me.
Dude… cmon, you can do better. Nasdaq is shit for the foreseeable future
Therapy.
You found a $5 prostitute?
Christ, this makes me upset just to read. Like, by all means do what you want, but “I pay prostitutes because I might die in a car crash” is a deeply troubling thought process.
You’re 22 for fucks sake. Go on a date. You’re missing out on a lot of the sexual experience by paying for it.
brothels are good too
I spent 260 dollars once and that was very recently, to lose my virginity and have sex at 23. I also spent 300 for a BJ once and a massage right before that.
However before I used only to get a massage and spent like 2k for all that shit and I didn’t really regret it but be careful man its an expensive venture to get into.
Even I’m now relcuntate on spending money because I’ve had many hookers who rejected me and I think it was the place of where I went to get the erotic massage than the people themselves.
Some would take my money and keep rejecting me, and I got scammed once and never went back there again. So, now I masturbate instead.
Sounds still sad, actually even more. Looks like you try to find excuses with the weather argument.
i live in brazil and currently studying maths at university, i’m 21, i only have one classmate, i have aspergers, so social things are difficult for me. Every month i see a sex worker, thats how i cope with lonely and stress, and it works! I would prefer a girlfriend, but we cant get everything we want, having sex once in a month with an escort, helps me feel happy and confident…
What…uhhh….
What’s exactly is your sexual fixation with Turkish women about?
How many sessions do you get for $500-$600?
No one is forcing you to stay in Denmark, why don’t you move somewhere else? You are in the perfect age to go explore some other countries.
Get an online job and move to the Canary islands where it’s sunny all year!
This kind of thing is probably doing a lot of damage to you long term without you even realising
You’re 22 talking like you’re 40. Chill.
OP is like two stops from being a red pill fanatic or whatever you call them
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I don’t get it is life really that hard in Denmark. Government basically pays for your education, housing, and healthcare. Y’all have unions and paid lunches. Your work days aren’t even that long. You don’t need to drive to get anywhere. You have the opportunity to explore pretty parts of Europe without paying an arm and a leg and you don’t have to quit your job to take off more than like 2 weeks.
I’m sorry im not blaming you (i am) but like come on shits no fair. Half of my struggles wouldn’t exist had I been born in Western Europe.
My man, you make more money than the average Dane, you’ve also got Sweden next door which is like the Mexico of Scandinavia, economically speaking. Danish and Swedish women are the least inhibited and most forward and easy to approach, just don’t tell them att du betalar horar. And what is this about nature? I’ve camped in Denmark and driven through the countryside. Of course you have nature.
Move
Let him live his life. Everyone chiming in on what he should and shouldn’t do. If thats what he wants its what he wants.
denmark isnt thay bad bro. and its not even in the arctic circle, you get plenty sun.
Do you live in Greenland? 7-8 months of no sun and low hours of sunlight overall sounds weird coming from someone who lives way north of Denmark..
Therapy would really help!