it’s strange. I don’t have feelings for him. at least not any commitable ones. I jokingly flirt with one of my friends because we’re both straight girls and it’s all jokes and he always wants me to flirt with him too so I said “bet” and I have been. so we’ve been basically dirty talking a whole bunch and making everything innuendos. so lots of flirting. but then the other night, last night actually, we were at the beach with some friends, and it was cold, so we were all kinda huddled together. my other friend, who is in a relationship but really touchy with this guy, was like leaning on him, and I was like “I wanna get in on this cuddling” meaning with her. but then he switched to the middle and had his arm around me and I was pretty much laying in his lap. he kinda held my face and was scratching my head and stuff. he kept laying his lead on mine. it was nice because I haven’t been like that with someone since my last relationship. but now I’m thinking about it. it was nice.
I “platonically cuddled” and boy who “jokingly flirts with me” and I can’t stop thinking about it
r/self
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This is like a good old, friends-to-lovers movie script, and I’m getting butterflies just reading your post. I hope you start falling for him and he confesses that he had feelings for you all along.
Heheheheheheeee
The thing i missed most after the relationships where the cuddles, not even the sex ot anything, the cuddles
Dangerous zone here. You should do that in a relatonship not „platonically“
I’M SO JEALOUS!
Good for you, OP! Thanks for reminding me how cuddle starved I am – I’ll have to ask the boys to cuddle me now ;,(
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Seriously cuddling even between friends can be a great thing. If you’re comfortable with it, add platonic cuddling to your things to do! Why not embrace it?