Women who joke about telling your husbands all your friends’ secrets, don’t be surprised if you lose friends

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My friend loved to constantly joke about the fact that after hanging out with her girlfriends, she would go home and “spill the tea” to her eagerly waiting husband. This became something of a trend among IG content creators too, where they’d laugh about gossiping about their girlfriends’ lives with their husbands.

Hey, don’t get me wrong. We know spouses tell each other pretty much everything. And we’re happy that you and your husbands have fun chatting together.

Just don’t broadcast it like it’s a cutesy little quirk you have. And DON’T act all surprised and upset, like my friend did, when we stopped giving her our life updates. Some of those updates are private and we expect you to at least act like you respect our privacy.

Basically, just be smart.

Comments

  1. its12amsomewhere Avatar

    Secrets should honestly stay secrets unless it’ll harm somebody else, also it depends on what kind of secret it is, if its something deeply personal and my friend trusts me with it, I don’t think even batman can get that out of me lmao